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How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement

Part Four:
How to Use Your Invincible Guidance System To Your Benefit
What is our guidance system?

Our guidance system is a natural part of us that instinctively takes over our thoughts in a positive way. It is the intelligent part that speaks words that we weren’t sure we knew. We see this when deep into an explanation of something we give a precise account of what we want to say. Our "How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement"words are spontaneous and seem to just pop out of our mouths. I’m sure you’ve been there. I have many times. Our guidance is the inner part of us that assists us when we make choices. It always picks out the best case scenario and it is in our best interest to follow this guidance.

There are many ways to find this guidance but the wisest and easiest way to find it is by feeling your way to it. This means when you are facing a choice, especially a tough one, take the time to question any possibilities that could be the answer to the situation. A good way to do this is by asking yourself, “what would I like to see instead of this situation that is presenting itself.” When you do this imagine that new situation. See yourself with the best case scenario.

Be aware of what your feelings offer while you imagine this solution.

Your guidance will give you the sensation of clarity, harmony and alignment when you find the right solution. Your deepest feelings of acceptance to this idea will be the answer you’re looking for. This is your guidance at its best working for your best interest. If you focus on the wrong answer you will feel unsettled, you will question the idea you are contemplating. Nothing about it will feel right.

When questions arise in negative ways your feelings will be of:

  • Doubt
  • Adversity
  • Misfortune
  • Affliction
  • Hurt
  • Harm
  • Ruination
  • Misery
  • Woe

Also, suffering, distress and bereavement among many negative feelings, according to what situation is presented to you at the time. These feelings are telling you that you are not in alignment with the best case scenario that your guidance is offering you. Your guidance will always give you the positive feeling which will tell you to move in another direction.

This guidance is also called our intuition.

We’ve all been aware of this at some stage in our life. It kicks in when there is major danger ahead that fight or flight instinct, where you stay and face the music or run from the oncoming danger. You usually know what to do in such dangerous situations. Regardless, our guidance is with us constantly. When we feel our way to it we always find the best possible pathway to take.

This is what happened to me a short while ago. I had some grocery shopping to do and I also had to go to the post office. The post office is in the same plaza as a Sobeys store. Before I went into the post office I debated within myself whether to go to Sobeys to do my shopping or to go across town and do it at the Walmart center where I could also buy some "How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement"other items that Sobeys didn’t sell. I pondered this while I was waiting in line at the post office and my feelings were strongly to do it at Sobeys. I was already right next to this store and was not in immediate need of the other items. When I came out of the post office, however, I instantly changed my mind against the feelings that was strongly playing within me. I decided to go to Walmart. Even as I drove I had the strong inkling to turn around. I didn’t. When I got to Walmart I did my grocery shopping and loaded the other items into my cart. Suddenly, over the speakers an employee asked everyone to leave their shopping and shopping carts and evacuate the store immediately. The message kept repeating. Police were suddenly everywhere quickly moving us from the store. Apparently there had been a bomb threat. A young man said he was wearing a bomb I learned from the news report later that evening.

I came out of the place ruffled to say the least.

I felt drained from the negative energy this shocking experience had brought with it. I went home heart pounding. I was in no mood to go to another store to shop yet again, that day. I had wasted a couple of hours shopping to no avail because I didn’t listen to my guidance system which had sent me strong feelings not to go.

I was totally appreciative that no one was hurt. Regardless, when there are such strong instincts going on within me, I know never to ignore them again.

Nevertheless, this guidance isn’t there only in the fight or flight scenario it is with us in all of our daily activities, choices and decisions. They only scream at us so loud and clear in cases such as I’ve just mentioned. Usually they are supple and quiet. They get much louder when you ignore them and then they show up in your life in negative situations, things and people.

Take a quiet time to feel for the guidance that is offered to you in any situation you are looking for answers to.

They will show up. Always ask for the best your life can be, expect it and feel your way to it. Your guidance will steer you on the right path, without fail.

This is what Anita Moorjani, Abraham and other teachers call living from the inside out!

“I can’t say this strongly enough, but our feelings about ourselves are actually the most important barometer for determining the condition of our lives!” 
― 
Anita MoorjaniDying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing

We have a book series that will show you many ways to find out how to use your guidance system. Your Invincible Power Series

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which "How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement"assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela

 

How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams




Becoming Centered is to find the true you in your story.

When you’re centered you realize you’re the person you should love first. The person you should respect and only want the very best for. This is where your invincible power actually lies. Regardless, it may be that your parent or parents taught you to believe in yourself and "How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"then the rest of the world took the power away from that belief. You may have been taught that you had to sacrifice your happiness to make others happy. There has been a prerequisite, so to speak, from this world and that is: you must not be centered in love for yourself for it is selfish.

And yet the opposite to this is the truth.

If you’re not centered in love and respect for yourself, you cannot honestly give love and respect for others and truly mean it. This is why so many relationships do not work out. Universal Laws always work in the opposite direction to our beliefs. And so if we can’t find true love for ourselves we cannot attract those wonderful people, places and situations that we so desire into our lives.

Some people are so far from there center that they feel they have to control others to receive what they want or feel they need.

This is the truth about how Universal Laws operate:

  • When people try to control others to act the way they want them to, it never works.
  • When people try to manipulate others to do what they want them to do, it never works.
  • When people try to influence others for the purpose of making themselves happy. They will not gain happiness from it.
  • When people threaten others with fear it may seem to work for a short time before their own life starts to fall apart. They will never find happiness this way.

The reason this happens is because they are looking to others to find their happiness. This is the void that we talked about in the previous article. They believe that if this other person will act and do what they want, then they will feel contented. Universal laws always tell us that if we are centered in our love for ourselves first and foremost, then we don’t need any other to change the way they think and act for us. Simply put, when a person is centered they attract others that are also centered in love for themselves and do not need another to change their ways to make them happy. Both parties in this sort of relationship can feel joyful without convincing the other to be what they want them to be.

When you are centered:

  • You manifest the right situations to you that bring you joy.
  • When you feel in your center you attract those people you want to be around.
  • When you enjoy being who you truly are you attract abundance in your life easily.
  • When you are centered you do not fear what others think about you."How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"
  • When you are centered you are not in fear of unwanted events.
  • When you are centered you love your own company, as well as others.
  • When you feel in your center you only attract a life of joy.
  • When you are centered there is no void to fill.

If you find it hard to love and respect yourself this is the Universe showing you that you are in a state of resistance.

  • You always feel an emptiness.
  • You feel down about yourself.
  • You believe that you do not stack up to others in your life who you may look up to.

You know when you are truly centered because you feel happy, joyous and alive.    

Feeling centered is about detachment from unwanted things. It is letting go of the attachment to that voice which is at the helm of those misguided thoughts of unworthiness.

We’ve all been there. The changes that I have found since I’ve come to understand these infinite laws is: life does not work out to my advantage if I ignore my strong feelings of negativity. In other words, when I meet head on with a negative choice, situation or person and ignore any strong feelings of conflict, I see negative consequences soon enter my life. To the contrary, I always feel good when I make good feeling choices.

“Nobody else knows your reason for being. You do. Your bliss guides you to it. When you follow your bliss, when you follow your path to joy, your conversation is of joy, your feelings are of joy — you’re right on the path of that which you intended when you came forth into this physical body”Abraham-Hicks

These feelings are our guidance. We have called it intuition, perception, sixth sense and premonition among many names. These deep feelings are your discernment of the choices in life which you are offered. This guidance is your invincible power which will keep you "How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"centered to find good feeling thoughts. This is what W.T and I talk about so much. This is why you have to feel your way through life. This invincible power within will guide you through those negative thoughts you contemplate daily. You become alert to those warning bells, and the opposite of that is the good feeling sensations when it is to your advantage.

In our Book, Your Invincible Power, Open The Door To Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy  you will find many answers to the questions you have. This is a book of guidance to bring you to the life that you want to manifest. We wrote this with you in mind, who are coming to an awakening to the real you.

In Part Four I will tell you how to: Use Your Invincible Guidance System to Manifest the Life You Would Rather Live.

Your Friend, Pam"How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

 

When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?




Part Two: If I feel inadequate how do I find my own power?

I have been studying these Universal laws for many years now and have watched, not only what has been showing up in my life but in others also. What I have come to understand is that we tend to look for negatives more easily than the positives in life. We often feel inadequate and we try to cover this idea with many complaints. This is a psychological activity which we’ve been conditioned to. This shows up in how we respond to those situations which make us feel valueless and inadequate.

I realized how much I complained.

I found fault in outside circumstances and gave blame to those circumstances or people for what was happening to me, which, at the time I thought was unfair. I didn’t understand that every unwanted event, person and circumstance that entered into my life was being attracted by me and no one else, by the very thing I complained about. We all do this because it has been a prior condition to give emphasis to our inadequate view of other people. Which in turn is a comparison to our profound feelings of our own inadequate self. Simply put, we have been trained to grumble our way through life. We do this constantly without thought. We criticize, censure and disapprove of situations, events and people who show up in our lives that aggravate it.

Like everyone else I didn’t understand clearly what these inadequate thoughts was doing to me.

The more I complained the more I stressed the unrevealed inadequate feelings in me. The danger in this is more experiences and circumstances would be attracted to show me my inadequate side. Simply put, it would prove to me that I was what I had been led to believe I was, an inadequate person.

The truth revealed: I am amazing, brilliant and powerful. I obviously didn’t think of myself this way. Most of us don’t. We seem to draw on our shortcomings easily and wonder why they keep showing up in our lives.

What was revealed to me is so interesting. Those people that complained endlessly about the things they didn’t want—those endless unwanted things was showing up in their lives relentlessly.



I watched those who live and enjoy life and it would seem nothing really went wrong for them. In other words, they got what they wanted and expected. I came to the awareness "When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"that these Universal laws were very powerful and that we do choose the life we want even if it is by default.

Our power is from within

But what I really came to understand was we have to get to that centered place in our lives of love for ourselves first. Our power is actually within. It’s about the way we treat ourselves. Some questions to ponder are:

  • Do you respect yourself?
  • Do you show love to yourself?
  • Do you see your own brilliance?
  • Do you see yourself as a deserving person?
  • Do you see yourself as much more than adequate?
  • Do you see yourself living a joyful life?

If these questions seem to be out of the range of what you think of yourself then you are not in your own powerful center. This means that you are not allowing the genuine you, the person you were born to be, and the life you were meant to live into your experience.

“Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in greater ways.” Iyanla Vanzant 
  • When you live from a false premise of who you are you cannot attract the experiences that you were born to attract.
  • You cannot give love and receive it if you don’t love yourself enough.
  • You cannot be prosperous if you are thinking thoughts of poverty.
  • You cannot gain health if you are thinking of illness.

These all go against Universal laws. This is why you have to change the way you think. This is the way you become powerfully centered.

My life changed completely since I understand this Universal law. I live in joy most days but I still see things manifesting to complain about. The difference is I stop myself. I actually pull myself away from the thought of complaining.  I pivot to a better thought. I center myself to a better place.

In Part Three, you will find out how to become truly centered, and manifest a life you want.

Our book, Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy, also provides answers to these unanswered questionslaw of attraction, success, mindset, personal development "When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"

 

 

 

 

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

"When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"

Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want




Most people are the antagonist of their own story. Part One.

Without realizing this we have built a wall up that will stop any true desires of abundance, health and happiness reaching us.

How did this happen?

It happened quite easily because we have been conditioned to the belief of lack, as our parents have and their parents before them. In fact, it was a way to take control of the masses since the second century AD. The antagonist was the authoritative force of law that we feared at that time. We then allowed this force to change our beliefs. The problem is we "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"are still using these contrasting beliefs today. Most people conclude that their lives should be a struggle. Due to this inaccurate notion they have learned to attract lack. This is the void they live with.

Owing to centuries of this erroneous influence our lives have taken us in the wrong direction. Unfortunately, we are still living our lives from this backward conception through those antagonists that had existed so long ago.

This is how the masses live: most believe that life is a struggle and that it always will be. Simply put, they believe that this is what their journey consists of: deficiency, deprivation, need and emptiness. This becomes the void that most are trying to fill. This voice of insufficiency is constantly playing in the mind.

The antagonist then is the ego.

The antagonist/ego now is a part of you. It no longer lives on the outside. It is that voice that temps you to fill the void with: unworthiness, unwelcome things, failed relationships and unwanted experiences. It is an expert at this because you have bought into these beliefs by default.

Almost all of what we do runs counterproductive to what we really desire our lives to be, since we are trying to fill the void from a place of lack.

Universal Laws tells us a different story.

We have to fill the void first. We do this by understanding our worthiness. We have to embrace our lives and who we are. We do this by drowning out the voice that tells of our inferiority. This voice has been the greater part of us. This is the antagonist that now lives within. The ego part of us. "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

When we believe in our lack then whatever experience we have in our life is coming from a place of lack and will only produce more lack. This is why positive transactions with money seems to be brief and fleeting. It is the reason why failed relationships and unwanted experiences happen. It is why our happiness is transient. We only seem to hold on to the good, desired parts for short periods of time.

There is a discord between what we desire and our chronic habit of thought.

Thought is where your power is. When you give persistent thoughts of lack and unworthiness you actually confirm these ideas. That is to say the antagonist/ego is given full reign to run your life, and it will always pick the side of lack and unworthiness.

We have to learn how worthy we are. This is where our true power lies. Our real job is to change our views about the reality we would prefer to see about ourselves. This means we have to recognize our own brilliance, our gifted talents. We all have them. We can have money, genuine relationships, great experiences filled with joy and happiness if we fill the void and understand that we are deserving of a wonderful life. This comes first. We have been doing this backwards. We have been trying to fill the void first with those desires so we can be happy. However, it tends to hinder rather than serve one’s purpose, since we have to find contentment and happiness from within first then all those desires will show up to add tremendously to that happiness we have already found. Like Attracts Like. This is a Universal Law.

How do you find your own self-worth?

Look out for Part Two in the next blog which will help you find these answers and freedom to the life you truly deserve. law of attraction, empowerment, personal development "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

 

In our book “Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy,” you will also find answer to these long asked questions.

 

Your Friend Pam

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

"Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

 

 

 

 

True Freedom from Racism and Hate




Freedom is more than just a word it’s a way of life that we were born to find. My book Love, Life and Beyond shows the way to real freedom.

I have written quite a few articles about my book, Love, Life and Beyond and its benefits. The book outlines some major issues that many of us face and the freedom of taking control over these issues. However, I believe its most profound message is the way to gain freedom from racism and hate. This message became even more acute this morning when my husband, who is "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"black, (I’m not going to try and be politically correct because this term is what he has always been comfortable with and taught me to use) started to describe the horrors of what is going on in the United States, the white supremacy (as they call it) and the marches. My husband was telling me with passion what he sees as fearful. He went on to say that all what Martin Luther King had brought to us is seeping down the drain.

I listened, kind of. My husband knows that I don’t follow the news. I am careful not to buy into these negative beliefs because I do not follow these external views and laws. I follow Universal Laws which teach that there is nothing to fear.

When we get together and protest out of fear we are pushing against our freedom.

We are pushing against the results of what we need to see. The only way a body of people who march can produce what is desired is if they march in peace with love for their fellow man.

Mother Teresa said it best, “I will never attend an anti-war rally. If you have a peace rally, invite me.” She knew that pushing against what you don’t want can only produce what you don’t want. Without love for your fellow man these marches hold no power. This is a Universal law.

Universal Laws show that fear is something we buy into.

We watch these hate rallies and we become fearful of the future. Regardless, we are powerful human beings. We don’t have to fear. Once we really understand that taking control really means taking control over our own response to these situations our lives change, we find our true freedom. You don’t have to respond with hate because hate "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"cannot bond with love they are two different frequencies. Hate is weakness and Love is Power. It is impossible to unite the two. Hate never gets you freedom, it can only hold you in bondage.

Simply put, see the powerful being that you are. My book Love, Life and Beyond shows you how Universal laws are in place to give us freedom. It shows you through two families one black and one white racist, the way out of the fear of racism and hate. It shows you another way of handling unwanted situations like these that are playing out on the news and social media today.



Find your freedom. Find your way out of fear. Learn to take control of your life. Read Love, Life and Beyond it was written for you.

Also read Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy written by me and my son W.T. Hamilton. This is a non-fictional book that goes hand in "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"hand with Love Life and Beyond. What you don’t find in one you will find in another. They both represent your freedom, no matter where you are or who you are.

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote the novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"

 

 

Sisters: Have we lost our loved ones or are they still with us?




Sisters and Sisterhood. Have we lost our loved ones or are they still with us?

I count myself extremely fortunate to have been born into a family with three sisters and a brother. I was born in Leicester, England and although we didn’t have much money us kids had many great experiences. "Sisters: Have we lost our loved ones or are they still with us?"

When I was eighteen my brother emigrated to New Zealand. I met my husband a year later and we emigrated here to Canada when I was twenty-four. I missed my mom and sisters like crazy. In those days phoning each other was for emergencies and Christmas only, it was way too expensive. And so we wrote letters to each other constantly. I lived to see the mailman bring me a letter, literally.

My first trip home was to watch my dad dying.

He had become ill and I got a leave from work and stayed at my mom’s for six weeks. Helping her to take care of him and reveling in those moments at night where I would sit with him through those dark hours and we would talk. I was fortunate to be with him when he took his last breath along with my mom and three sisters. I mourned for him as we all do when someone close to us dies. I returned to Canada with my two sons and once more life fell into an accepted normal pace. Three years later I had my youngest son. My Mom would come to see me almost every year. In-between her visits I went to see her and my sisters and my aunty Pam, my mom’s youngest sister, who I was named after.

As time went by I could afford to go to England more often.

Ultimately my mom moved to a bungalow and me and my sisters and aunt would all have tea or lunch there with her. We use to laugh and carry on and it was a shear sisterhood that we created. I look at those times so fondly. I loved those times and missed the bond we all had when I got back to Canada.



As the years went by facebook, cell phones texting, emails, and skype arrived on our doorstep. Along with phone charges dropping to two cents a minute which I was able to attain at that time. Yvonne and I was in touch the most. We were close in age and we had hung out as teens together with other friends. She was my best friend. We skyped once a week and phoned texted each other and emailed. We were in constant touch.

In 2008, we lost Janice. She was the baby of our family.

She was only 48 years-old when she died. It was a sudden hurtful blow to all of us. A year later we lost our dear mom. In 2011 I lost Yvonne "Sisters: Have we lost our loved ones or are they still with us?"and my aunt left us two and a half years after Yvonne. Our sisterhood was gone. Those wonderful afternoons at our mom’s house of fun and heartfelt laughter was gone. I was devastated.

My older sister Valerie is still in England. I’m here in Canada. George, my brother is still in New Zealand. But the question is what do you do when you have such a loss. How does your broken heart mend?

A year after Yvonne’s death and a profound and deep year of mourning I got to understand that these wonderful strong women are still in my life. They never really left. It sounds so strange but I’ve learned that there are lots of indicators or messages which manifest evidence of their presence. I researched this as it was important for me to know where they had gone to.

I got into the Esther and Jerry Hicks, Abraham. Their teachings all makes so much sense to me. Abraham became a great comfort. I believe in Universal laws, and I have been able to activate this vibrational energy and change my life in wonderful ways.

I also read “Dying to Be Me, Anita Moorjani. I absolutely loved this book because it really explained the whys and wherefores of death. She is such a great writer and articulates this subject so fully, and clearly, in my opinion.

I understand that my family are in a wonderful place. I realize that one day I will be joining them. I understand that mourning them isn’t what they want me to do. I can vision their play and laughter. And I accept that they want that for me too.

I cherish those memories I have in the bungalow where we would laugh and have lots of fun. We were a unification of women in a common cause, to relax and distract ourselves from the problems of the outside world for a few hours. We lived in the bliss of our close relationships. We had a sisterhood.

Yes, they will always be a part of me but now I shed tears of happiness that I’ve been most fortunate to have had these women a part of my life.

A book that I also have found to be fascinating and helpful is called “The AfterLife: Hereafter and Here at Hand (Between Heaven and Earth Book 1) by Giulia Jeary Knap

If you are mourning a loved one please take comfort that they are – and will always be with you, loving you and wanting your happiness. The joy you feel-they feel also. No matter what the relationship was when they left us, I have come to believe that the relationship is "Sisters: Have we lost our loved ones or are they still with us?"much more powerful in non-physical. We are all bonded together in our love and that never fades away.

 

 

 

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours. Love, Life and Beyond also delves into the After-Life in a profound way.

Your Friend, Pamela "Sisters: Have we lost our loved ones or are they still with us?"

 

 

Conflict! How do you Cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?




Conflict seems to play a major role in most people’s life experiences. The question is how should we react when the drama and conflict shows up to avoid being involved within it?

First, we have to understand what makes us react. What are our thoughts telling us at the immediate moment the conflict arrived on our doorstep? We have to be aware of what conflict initiates in our mind when it presents itself. The ego plays a major role in our reaction to things. Ego thoughts are those of resentment and grievances. It tells us we’re the victim and constantly reminds us of all the reasons why this conflict manifested. The "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"ego places blame and the more injured emotionally you feel the more the ego mind can maneuver you to more of what you don’t want, and that is profound drama. The ego will often hurl you to a place you would rather not go. At times losing the people you love because the ego loves to take advantage of the helpless you.

Where does the helpless me come from?

There is a false sense of the helpless me. It stems from fear. It is the thinking mind, the ego part of thoughts that is persuasive. It is the thinking part that actually convinces the helpless me to react out of a false awareness. Conflicts present themselves constantly and all they are is a situation or a person that says or does something opposite to what we agree with. It then becomes an unconscious psychic struggle. In many cases resulting in a hurtful clash. For some people a clash that may never resolve itself, or worse changing the relationship to “my enemy”.



We are not helpless. We are much more powerful than we believe. When we are in our power we have no need to allow the ego to take control. We are in control of our lives, and any situations that conflict presents.

When we are in our power the victim part of us dissolves into the backdrop of our lives. The helpless me cannot be in full force if we understand our ego mind and the way it works.

How do me and W.T handle this?

All who have read our articles and books and have been on this website before hopefully now know that me and W.T are mother and son. We work together. However, we have many different ideas. I am more spiritually centered and W.T is the logical part of this arrangement.

We often have disagreements to what our vision is. We are frequently far apart when it "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"comes to which way we should move our ideas forward. Our different age group plays a major role in how we handle things. Nevertheless, we have learned to agree to disagree. We have given each other permission to be who they want to be. Sometimes my hair stands on end and my eyes roll when I look at some of W.T’s youtube videos. And I know for sure W.T doesn’t share my endless chats about Esther Hicks, Abraham.

So what!! What is the big deal if we don’t agree? Why should we break up this wonderful partnership because we see things differently?

You see, there will always be disagreements and conflict in life. It is our reaction to it that makes it painful or not. The next time it presents itself in your life listen to what your inner voice is telling you. Is it the ego at play leading you on the wrong path? Listen. Always listen to the voice that is speaking. Is your self-talk really you, or is it the helpless you, the ego that has full control?

Take your control back. Listen to what the thinking mind is telling you and then change it harmoniously to where you would rather be in life. Simply put, reach for happiness first to avoid the pain of conflict. In other words, don’t take life quite so serious.

 

Your Friend, Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

 

 

How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?

How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?



We did a radio interview with “Happie” Micha Edwards on his talk show ‘O Happie Days’ in Toronto, Canada. The topic was freedom.

Freedom is our connection to the positive energy field. When we are in the negative energy field we are not in our power. When we are not in our power we feel restricted and limited. We blame everything and anyone that we are involved with for the negative situations that enter our lives. The problem with this is the more we blame other people or situations, the more we hold ourselves in bondage. To be connected to this positive energy field we must understand how we draw into our lives all what we have up until this point.

Unfortunately, for most of us, we have been conditioned to beliefs that do not benefit us.

These beliefs are so contradictory to Universal laws they completely turn us in the opposite direction to where we need to be. To be connected to the positive energy that will bring you what you desire you have to think and feel from within yourself. This journey is all about being connected within. It’s about YOU! The bone of contention with this is we don’t think this way. Our beliefs are that if we have a negative issue in our lives we have to look "How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?"outside to find the solution. We look for others to make it okay. We may want them to change the way they see things so that we can feel good. The result of this is that we are restricting our self. We no longer are connected to positive energy because this infinite energy can only come from within ourselves. There isn’t any person or object or even a situation that can fill the gap of unworthiness you feel.

What you need to understand is that it is easy to stay connected to this powerful energy field when you understand your own worth.

Instead of being drawn into a negative situation you must remind yourself of your own power. We are all extremely powerful in our own right. This means there isn’t anyone living "How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?"today that isn’t worthy. When I reach a negative situation in my life I have to remind myself of how powerful I am. I do this often! I tell myself, “You are much more powerful than this.” No matter what the situation looks like from the outside and even if it looks impossible I have learnt that nothing is impossible when you understand your power.

I was talking to a prisoner who was remorseful for what he had done. He had gotten involved deeply in things that he would not have if he had listened to his own heart. At that time, he was connected to the field of blame and anger at what he thought was a life that was unfair to him. When we spoke it seemed to him that it was impossible to change his future. He had blundered through life listening to others and allowed himself to be drawn into the negative field. We talked about turning his life around. Becoming harmonious with everyone and everything. But above all becoming harmonious with himself. Using his power to become connected to the life that he so desired. Once he really understood his own power and how he had given in to untruths about himself he could see a different future. He connected again to the positive energy field.



And then what had seemed to be impossible turned around.

A lawyer took an interest in his case and worked and got him free. All positive opportunities were drawn to him. He got a wonderful job. He met new friends that valued him for who he is. His life turned around in the most dramatic way. He is now counseling other men that need to reconnect with their own power.

We all have power. We are all deserving. This is the only way we can be free of bondage. Free of other people’s views. Free of others anger. Free of people pleasing. Free of fear.

Remind yourself often, “I am a powerful person. I’m much more powerful than this problem.” Believe in your own self-worth and watch your life change before your eyes.

You’ll be astonished to see your life change around. You will then see how easily it is to be connected to this powerful, positive energy field.

Your Friend, Pamela"How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?"

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela wrote, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.