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Self Talk and the Will




Let us place our right to be rich in an healthy position. The number one problem in gaining prosperity is that we believe we should be contented with what we have. Therefore we repeat these messages of limitation and become satisfied with the idea that we have all we should have.

“It is the truth that there is no such thing as poverty; that there is only wealth.”
Wallace D. Wattles, 1860 -1911 (The Science of Getting Rich)

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If we are in a difficult place financially we haven’t permitted the messages to penetrate that we have a right to be rich, as yet.

When we work two or three jobs to get a decent living then we are denying our right to the full abundance that we deserve. When we are working so hard and more of our waking days are taken up with physical exertion the money we acquire through such hard work doesn’t serve us. Have you noticed that all the hard earned bucks seem to piddle away so easily and those amazing possessions that you work so hard for seem to get further and further away from your grasp? This is because you were not meant to work so hard for what you want from life. None of us are meant to have such difficulty in gaining wealth. The whole of the Universe was set up for you to be abundant in every way. Each of us have been given amazing gifts which we are to discover. We know when they show up because they are our hidden talents and these talents are very creative. We all have them. The Universe is trying very hard to show them to you.

Let us talk about those creative talents and how to recognize them when they show up.

In our book, ‘Your Invincible Power,’  it explains : “Think about the last time you was really motivated and excited about something or a situation in your life. How did you feel? When you know what you want in life when your desire reveals itself the feelings you put into it are the glue to make it work and stick to you. You have to feel that same excitement and motivation that you felt that time previously.”

To bring these creative powers to us we have to learn to use our will against this negative self talk because it takes a good amount of will power to overcome the voice that reminds us of the limitation we have lived with up until now. Wealth is the biggest mountain to get by for most of us. To even believe we can possibly have a life that is financially abundant we must first have a clear vision of how we want our life to be, and we must keep our attention upon that vision. This is hard to do because our mind will present many conflicting ideas which can lead us away from the wealth that is rightfully ours. We do need to use our will power to guard against these opposing messages of untruths.

Sometimes a better way to understand the difficulty of these self limiting ideas is how we place these thoughts in our mind, on page 87 of our book, Your Invincible Power,’

W.T. suggests that: “Instead of saying, “I can’t afford that,” you need to say, “how can I afford that?” This changes the intent. The objective is to change the voice that limits you.



Feel your own reaction when you are confronted with a bill that you feel is high, or the reaction you feel when you want something and believe it is out of your reach. Many times it presents itself through emotions but other times it is the voice that says, “Wow! That is really expensive, how do they expect people to buy that” or “I love that, to bad I can’t afford it.” Change the intent around to the positive field. Use your will power so it can serve you not work against you. There is a Universe of riches just waiting for you.

Use the will to stay on course in view of any negative self talk which could deter you from your purpose. So seek the truth and use the will to overcome those lies and see where your life takes you.

“You cannot retain a true and clear vision of wealth if you are constantly turning your attention to opposing pictures, whether they be external or imaginary.”
Wallace D. Wattles, 1860 -1911 (The Science of Getting Rich)      

Your Friend, Pamela

"Self Talk and the Will"Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

 

Self Talk




We limit ourselves by the voice within us that constantly tells us we are inadequate, inconsequential, unproductive, half-witted, and so on.

These words don’t come to us consciously but these unreasonable words come to us in underlying messages with feelings, that say, “You are not supposed to have this.” “Did you really say that?” My favorite–which I find myself often repeat is, “It never fails!” meaning I always repeat something without thinking. I am trying to stop this way of thinking because when I say things like this to myself, I am being very unreasonable–in other words I am expecting it to fail, which of course it does if that is the message I portray to myself. We have to do the positive self talk.

The other day me and two of my grandchildren were doing crafts together and I had, what I thought was a good idea, and so I said, “Great idea, grandma!” My granddaughter looked at me quite odd, and replied, “You just called me grandma!” I acknowledged, “I was talking to me and giving myself a compliment.” I went on to tell them that we shouldn’t wait for other people to give us a compliment all of the time we should give ourselves compliments also.

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Why should we always wait to be valued? Why do we need someone else to value us?

“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserves your love and affection.”
Buddha, (c. 563-c. 483 BC)

If we feel of value we will also feel empowered and when we do get those compliments from other people we then feel that we can claim the praise which is being given. When we live with negative self talk we never feel deserving, we have a hard time receiving compliments and praise, we may pretend it is acceptable but we feel ill at ease. We feel fake.

This negative self talk does not serve us in anyway at all. So why do we do this?

  • Most of us pick up these unworthy messages from when we were children.
  • We were not always able to interpret messages and therefore some possibly were not meant the way we may have perceive them.
  • When this happens these false messages stored into our subconscious are activated and we feel those underlying notions that are still with us today.
  • Sometimes the self talk is not heard but experienced, in other words we feel uncomfortable and insecure with some idea or something that should move us towards the good things that we desire in life.
  • This happens because that self talk is telling us that we are not worthy of what it is that we would like, we then might step away from the idea that this is possible for us.

The Voice in Our Head




  • Many people would like a loving relationship wrapped in trust, and find this difficult to have, but did you realize that the self talk you have laying beneath layers of self denial is what stops this loving relationship?
  • Until we change our self talk we cannot change our lives and this all comes down to our change of thoughts about ourselves.

We have a chapter on relationships in the book,Your Invincible Power.’ in which this is explained further.

A great affirmation is:
I am worthy, I am valuable and I am deserving.
  • Affirmations are repeated often throughout the day if possible, however, first thing in the morning and the last thing at night is very important.
  • This is the way we change our thoughts about ourselves. This replaces those hidden negative messages that repeat to us constantly.
  • Once we start to change our thoughts, and affirm them to ourselves, life become beneficial to us and we activate positive places, situations and people into our lives, along with an abundance of well-being. How Wonderful is that!
“Remember you are an exclusive individual, your mind is dazzling with brilliance. You are not alone, you never was. You just have to claim what is yours and if a loving relationship is what you want then be a loving person and it will come. You will attract
it. Try it what have you to lose?”
Pamela Hamilton and W.T Hamilton, Your Invincible Power.

There are many affirmations in the back of our book, Your Invincible Power.’ I will talk more on this subject in the next article.

Your Friend, Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

 

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