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Eagles and the Six Leadership Principles They Teach Us




Six Leadership Principles to Learn from an Eagle

  1. Eagles fly Alone and at High Altitudes.They don’t fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds.

MEANING; Stay away from narrow-minded people, those that bring you down. Eagle flies with Eagles. Keep good company.

  1. Eagles have an Accurate Vision.They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km away. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.

MEANING; Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacles and you will succeed."Eagles and the Six Leadership Principles They Teach Us "

  1. Eagles do not Eat Dead things. They Feed only on Fresh Prey.

MEANING; Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past.

  1. Eagles Love the Storm.When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagle uses the raging storm to lift itself above the clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the branches and leaves of the tree.

MEANING; Face your challenges head on knowing that these will make you emerge stronger and better than you were. We can use the storms of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid of challenges, rather they relish them and use them profitably.

  1. Eagles Prepare for Training;They remove the feathers and soft grass in the nest so that the young ones get uncomfortable in preparation for flying and eventually flies/ when it becomes unbearable to stay in the nest.

MEANING; Leave your Comfort Zone, there is No Growth there.

  1. When the Eagle Grows Old,His feathers becomes weak and cannot take him as fast and as high as it should. This makes him weak and could make him die. So he retires to a place far away in the mountains. While there, he plucks out the weak feathers on his body and breaks its beaks and claws against the rocks until he is completely bare; a very bloody and painful process. Then he stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, new beaks and claws and then he comes out flying higher than before.

MEANING; We occasionally need to shed off old habit no matter how difficult, things that burden us or add no value to our lives should be let go of.

NEVER GIVE UP,

BE AN EAGLE

I absolutely love these principles and I needed to share them with you. Your Friend, Pamela "Eagles and the Six Leadership Principles They Teach Us "

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela

 

Up to Date! This is Where We Get UP and Personal About Us




Personal Up to Date True Life Stories

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get Up and Personal About Us"
Me and my husband Clinton in Jamaica

Welcome to our up to date page. This is where we get up and personal about us. By us I mean me, Pamela Hamilton and W.T. Hamilton. W.T is my eldest son. I have three sons. I am married to Clinton Hamilton and we have six grandchildren. We get together very often as a family with my other two sons and their families, also other relatives in our family. I place these times of family association highly valuable in my life. Clinton and I met in Leicester, England and married and had W.T there. We now live in Ontario, Canada. Clinton is originally Jamaican and went to England when a boy so is very English in many ways, lol! My family here are mainly on Clinton’s side of the family. My side stayed in Leicester.

Those of you who visit us frequently know W.T and I have written five books together, and I wrote a fictional book independently.

However, this page is to let you in on what is going on behind the scenes of this website with both me and W.T.

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get Up and Personal About Us"
Me and my son, W.T at one of our book signings

Those of you who follow Abraham-Hicks Daily Quotes must have noticed that they stopped being daily for a few months and I integrated them with the Inspirational Quotes. Well it happened because “something” stopped me from editing those particular pages, and therefore adding more new quotes. I had called our website host ‘Fatcow’ to find out why I couldn’t access this page. Although this host has been effective in their help prior, for some unknown reason they couldn’t get me back into the edit part of the page. Anyway, out of the blue last week I couldn’t get onto the Inspirational quotes either. Imagine how p’d off I was feeling. Not too harmonious I can tell you!! Now however, I don’t have the old reaction that I normally would have and calmly called our host once more. I was on hold at Fatcow for simply ages it would seem, and on top of that the associate couldn’t help and put me on hold again while she passed the call on to someone who knew more about it. I must admit I got fed up and hung up. But while I did this I said to myself I have more power over this. I’ll see it as being done as if they had already fixed it. I left it alone for the remaining part of the day. When I tried it the next morning both pages had become accessible again. This happens to me through different situations many times now, especially if I can get myself into a place of belief and then let it go. It could have been that the message was sent on and the person in the other department fixed it without my involvement. It could have been many things but regardless I believe that sometimes we just have to let go and believe in our own individual power. I wanted to share this with you because I feel that it is all quite fascinating? I give much appreciation when it works out to my advantage.

Latest news: W.T is doing podcast and I believe if you listen to them you will learn how to take charge of your life and be in the power zone that both W.T and I find ourselves in so often.

My son is trying his hardest to get me involved in the youtube videos. I have done a few when we started out and I am never pleased with the results. In fact, two years ago I did one about the ego called ‘Ego and Manifesting’  It took us so long, to make this. W.T kept having to restart it over and over. When I finally finished and he edited it and put it out live I realized just how many times I called our book, ‘How to Tame Your Ego and Fuel Your Imagination’ When it should have been and Fuel Your Ambition!! What happens is I get nervous and all of those wonderful words I want to say drift away. W.T has been very patient but I can tell you I’ve wasted so much time trying to make them and given up. Regardless, I have a great idea which I am working on from the book called, “What’s Your Message,” by Cam Barber. It really is a great book for public speaking. I had followed W.T’s advice and tried ‘Toastmasters’ prior but it really wasn’t for me. The people were absolutely welcoming and very supportive, even so, it opened up another part of my journey, not a good one, and at that time I came to realize that part of me that was unresolved. This is a part of me that was still living in that unworthiness part of my life deep within. I have been able to understand health abundance and overcame rheumatoid arthritis and some other health issues. I understood that health is deep within our belief system and what may be activated through those beliefs whether positive or negative.

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get UP and Personal About Us"
We All Have Personal Stories

Nevertheless, public speaking was not my forte. I came to realize that my journey of public speaking would take me on a visit to my past and see what was within my subconscious that made me so fearful. What was this obstacle I was harboring from past beliefs? I became aware that when I was little we were told to be seen and not heard. This had nothing to do with my home life that was free and full of wonderful experiences. But my dad’s mom, my grandma was a woman who had strong convictions and voiced them often. When we visited us kids were told to sit quietly. We even put our hands up to ask to go to the washroom. Those visits were long and boring. Me and my sisters and brother were extremely excited if grandma told us to go outside and play. This is what we did in front of important people – we kept our mouths shut. That was our belief. Now I understand this I have an open door to change this, and I will. Just as Stephen R. Covey said in ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ “I can tie myself to my limitless potential instead of my limiting past.” So this is what I am working on. I can’t yet tell you when my youtube video will be ready but I am working on it!

I know that I can hide behind this website and blogs and so forth but I am motivated to share with you all what I have learned and learning. “What’s Your Message,” by Cam Barber really works for me. I shall forge forward and get beyond this interruption in my journey.

In the mean-time W.T has been wonderful in providing our message in many amazing videos and now his new podcast which offers ways for you to also open the door to positive change in your life.

I can honestly say that what we are passing forward works, truthfully. Since I started this journey my life has been phenomenal. Its direction changed enormously and it is joyous

So, this page is about what we are working on. What obstacles we come up with and how we can overcome them and it’s about joining up with you which is our mission. In other words, we love your input also. I believe we are one and are all here to share with one another.

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get UP and Personal About Us"
Your Friend, Pamela

Love you all,

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

 

Miracles Do Happen. Left for Dead, The Kay Hicken Story




Miracles do happen. The Kay Hicken Story

On the 20th December 2016, Kayley Hicken was walking on the sidewalk and out of nowhere, it would seem, came a car at full speed which was to change her life. This is taken from the newspaper, ‘The Sun’:

‘TURN YOURSELF IN’ 

Family of young mum ‘left to die’ after shocking hit and run in Leicester urge attacker to ‘show human decency’ and come forward

Her family say son Lukah ‘misses his mummy’

Her aunt Gemma Middleton says she was close to death after the horror smash which left her with a broken leg, pelvis and ribs.

“It was touch-and-go at first and we did think we were going to lose her,” Gemma told the Leicester Mercury.

“Kay has a four-year-old son and he is really missing his mummy.

“We have had to sit him down and explain to him what has happened to his mum.

“If I could speak to the driver I would tell them, ‘If you have a conscience, stand up and be a decent human being and hand yourself in’.

Kay, who is mum to four-year-old Lukah, has already undergone a second operation – but is still on life support and in a critical condition.

Gemma, 35, added: “How they could leave her injured like that, I don’t know.

“We don’t know if the driver had been drinking or taking drugs, or if it was an accident and they were too scared to stop.

She has a lot of people who love her very much, but even people who don’t know her say they are praying for her to pull through.

Gemma Middleton

“We are a strong family and we’ve been overwhelmed by all the messages of support we’ve received.

“She has a lot of people who love her very much, but even people who don’t know her say they are praying for her to pull through.

“She’s had her second operation today and she’s come through that okay, but she is still on life support and is critical but stable.

“She’ll go through another operation on Thursday, if she’s able.

“We’re all just waiting for good news.”

Leicestershire Police discovered a white Volkswagen Golf in Bretton Walk, Stocking Farm, Leicester, on the same day as the crash.
They believe it may have been involved in the incident.

Detective Inspector Chris Baker said: “The victim is currently in hospital in a stable condition but has sustained serious injuries.

“I believe there are people who may know what happened, and it is these individuals I am appealing to.

“If you were at a party in Brackenfield Way, Thurmaston, over the weekend, and think you could have information, please call us.

“Do you know someone who attended a party at this address? If so, please let me know.

“And, did you see someone driving a white VW Golf erratically or at speed late on Friday night or the early hours of Saturday morning?

“Please come forward and let us know what you know, saw, heard or have heard since.”

 Since this article was in the newspaper Kay has had numerous surgeries on her pelvis, hips and legs.

Her family now call her the bionic woman due to all of the extra “pieces” holding her together. But what is amazing about this is what she overcame. When she came out of the coma she was told that the chances were she would probably not walk again due to the "Miracles Do Happen. Left for Dead, The Kay Hicken Story"major damage to her legs and pelvis. Regardless, Kay was on her feet after only weeks of this diagnosis. In fact, she is now walking with the help of crutches. She is even getting around the house without the crutches at times.

Miracles are in our reach. Kay is what we would call a miracle.

However, it is her belief in herself and what she was capable of doing that really brought her through this harsh ordeal. She didn’t give in to the diagnosis. She didn’t spend months feeling sorry for herself and fall into a deep depression of what her life might become without the use of her legs. Against the odds she used her mind and conviction to take her through the worse part of her life. Kay was in an induced coma for two weeks. Her mom Hayley, (my niece) believed she would come through and didn’t refrain from the thought that Kay would not only make it out of that coma but would walk once again.

When I asked Kay how she was able to keep such a strong constitution through this painful experience she responded that she had read our book, ‘Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy.’ I was overjoyed to hear this not because it is the book reviews, empowerment, motivational books "Miracles Do Happen. Left for Dead, The Kay Hicken Story"book I and W.T wrote together, but because this proves to me that it works. I got over rheumatoid arthritis and I am in complete health again, so I believed in the messages this book holds. Even so, it is wonderful to know others have been given the opportunity to change their experiences through Universal laws, as we have been.

My Thanks go to Kay Hicken for allowing me to share the miracles of her story with the world. Kay you inspire us all.

This story was aired on the program ‘Crime Watch.’ In spite of this fact, the driver has never been caught to date.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2444853/leicester-hit-and-run-family/

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to. "Miracles Do Happen. Left for Dead, The Kay Hicken Story"

How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams




Becoming Centered is to find the true you in your story.

When you’re centered you realize you’re the person you should love first. The person you should respect and only want the very best for. This is where your invincible power actually lies. Regardless, it may be that your parent or parents taught you to believe in yourself and "How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"then the rest of the world took the power away from that belief. You may have been taught that you had to sacrifice your happiness to make others happy. There has been a prerequisite, so to speak, from this world and that is: you must not be centered in love for yourself for it is selfish.

And yet the opposite to this is the truth.

If you’re not centered in love and respect for yourself, you cannot honestly give love and respect for others and truly mean it. This is why so many relationships do not work out. Universal Laws always work in the opposite direction to our beliefs. And so if we can’t find true love for ourselves we cannot attract those wonderful people, places and situations that we so desire into our lives.

Some people are so far from there center that they feel they have to control others to receive what they want or feel they need.

This is the truth about how Universal Laws operate:

  • When people try to control others to act the way they want them to, it never works.
  • When people try to manipulate others to do what they want them to do, it never works.
  • When people try to influence others for the purpose of making themselves happy. They will not gain happiness from it.
  • When people threaten others with fear it may seem to work for a short time before their own life starts to fall apart. They will never find happiness this way.

The reason this happens is because they are looking to others to find their happiness. This is the void that we talked about in the previous article. They believe that if this other person will act and do what they want, then they will feel contented. Universal laws always tell us that if we are centered in our love for ourselves first and foremost, then we don’t need any other to change the way they think and act for us. Simply put, when a person is centered they attract others that are also centered in love for themselves and do not need another to change their ways to make them happy. Both parties in this sort of relationship can feel joyful without convincing the other to be what they want them to be.

When you are centered:

  • You manifest the right situations to you that bring you joy.
  • When you feel in your center you attract those people you want to be around.
  • When you enjoy being who you truly are you attract abundance in your life easily.
  • When you are centered you do not fear what others think about you."How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"
  • When you are centered you are not in fear of unwanted events.
  • When you are centered you love your own company, as well as others.
  • When you feel in your center you only attract a life of joy.
  • When you are centered there is no void to fill.

If you find it hard to love and respect yourself this is the Universe showing you that you are in a state of resistance.

  • You always feel an emptiness.
  • You feel down about yourself.
  • You believe that you do not stack up to others in your life who you may look up to.

You know when you are truly centered because you feel happy, joyous and alive.    

Feeling centered is about detachment from unwanted things. It is letting go of the attachment to that voice which is at the helm of those misguided thoughts of unworthiness.

We’ve all been there. The changes that I have found since I’ve come to understand these infinite laws is: life does not work out to my advantage if I ignore my strong feelings of negativity. In other words, when I meet head on with a negative choice, situation or person and ignore any strong feelings of conflict, I see negative consequences soon enter my life. To the contrary, I always feel good when I make good feeling choices.

“Nobody else knows your reason for being. You do. Your bliss guides you to it. When you follow your bliss, when you follow your path to joy, your conversation is of joy, your feelings are of joy — you’re right on the path of that which you intended when you came forth into this physical body”Abraham-Hicks

These feelings are our guidance. We have called it intuition, perception, sixth sense and premonition among many names. These deep feelings are your discernment of the choices in life which you are offered. This guidance is your invincible power which will keep you "How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"centered to find good feeling thoughts. This is what W.T and I talk about so much. This is why you have to feel your way through life. This invincible power within will guide you through those negative thoughts you contemplate daily. You become alert to those warning bells, and the opposite of that is the good feeling sensations when it is to your advantage.

In our Book, Your Invincible Power, Open The Door To Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy  you will find many answers to the questions you have. This is a book of guidance to bring you to the life that you want to manifest. We wrote this with you in mind, who are coming to an awakening to the real you.

In Part Four I will tell you how to: Use Your Invincible Guidance System to Manifest the Life You Would Rather Live.

Your Friend, Pam"How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

 

When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?




Part Two: If I feel inadequate how do I find my own power?

I have been studying these Universal laws for many years now and have watched, not only what has been showing up in my life but in others also. What I have come to understand is that we tend to look for negatives more easily than the positives in life. We often feel inadequate and we try to cover this idea with many complaints. This is a psychological activity which we’ve been conditioned to. This shows up in how we respond to those situations which make us feel valueless and inadequate.

I realized how much I complained.

I found fault in outside circumstances and gave blame to those circumstances or people for what was happening to me, which, at the time I thought was unfair. I didn’t understand that every unwanted event, person and circumstance that entered into my life was being attracted by me and no one else, by the very thing I complained about. We all do this because it has been a prior condition to give emphasis to our inadequate view of other people. Which in turn is a comparison to our profound feelings of our own inadequate self. Simply put, we have been trained to grumble our way through life. We do this constantly without thought. We criticize, censure and disapprove of situations, events and people who show up in our lives that aggravate it.

Like everyone else I didn’t understand clearly what these inadequate thoughts was doing to me.

The more I complained the more I stressed the unrevealed inadequate feelings in me. The danger in this is more experiences and circumstances would be attracted to show me my inadequate side. Simply put, it would prove to me that I was what I had been led to believe I was, an inadequate person.

The truth revealed: I am amazing, brilliant and powerful. I obviously didn’t think of myself this way. Most of us don’t. We seem to draw on our shortcomings easily and wonder why they keep showing up in our lives.

What was revealed to me is so interesting. Those people that complained endlessly about the things they didn’t want—those endless unwanted things was showing up in their lives relentlessly.



I watched those who live and enjoy life and it would seem nothing really went wrong for them. In other words, they got what they wanted and expected. I came to the awareness "When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"that these Universal laws were very powerful and that we do choose the life we want even if it is by default.

Our power is from within

But what I really came to understand was we have to get to that centered place in our lives of love for ourselves first. Our power is actually within. It’s about the way we treat ourselves. Some questions to ponder are:

  • Do you respect yourself?
  • Do you show love to yourself?
  • Do you see your own brilliance?
  • Do you see yourself as a deserving person?
  • Do you see yourself as much more than adequate?
  • Do you see yourself living a joyful life?

If these questions seem to be out of the range of what you think of yourself then you are not in your own powerful center. This means that you are not allowing the genuine you, the person you were born to be, and the life you were meant to live into your experience.

“Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in greater ways.” Iyanla Vanzant 
  • When you live from a false premise of who you are you cannot attract the experiences that you were born to attract.
  • You cannot give love and receive it if you don’t love yourself enough.
  • You cannot be prosperous if you are thinking thoughts of poverty.
  • You cannot gain health if you are thinking of illness.

These all go against Universal laws. This is why you have to change the way you think. This is the way you become powerfully centered.

My life changed completely since I understand this Universal law. I live in joy most days but I still see things manifesting to complain about. The difference is I stop myself. I actually pull myself away from the thought of complaining.  I pivot to a better thought. I center myself to a better place.

In Part Three, you will find out how to become truly centered, and manifest a life you want.

Our book, Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy, also provides answers to these unanswered questionslaw of attraction, success, mindset, personal development "When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"

 

 

 

 

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

"When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"

Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want




Most people are the antagonist of their own story. Part One.

Without realizing this we have built a wall up that will stop any true desires of abundance, health and happiness reaching us.

How did this happen?

It happened quite easily because we have been conditioned to the belief of lack, as our parents have and their parents before them. In fact, it was a way to take control of the masses since the second century AD. The antagonist was the authoritative force of law that we feared at that time. We then allowed this force to change our beliefs. The problem is we "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"are still using these contrasting beliefs today. Most people conclude that their lives should be a struggle. Due to this inaccurate notion they have learned to attract lack. This is the void they live with.

Owing to centuries of this erroneous influence our lives have taken us in the wrong direction. Unfortunately, we are still living our lives from this backward conception through those antagonists that had existed so long ago.

This is how the masses live: most believe that life is a struggle and that it always will be. Simply put, they believe that this is what their journey consists of: deficiency, deprivation, need and emptiness. This becomes the void that most are trying to fill. This voice of insufficiency is constantly playing in the mind.

The antagonist then is the ego.

The antagonist/ego now is a part of you. It no longer lives on the outside. It is that voice that temps you to fill the void with: unworthiness, unwelcome things, failed relationships and unwanted experiences. It is an expert at this because you have bought into these beliefs by default.

Almost all of what we do runs counterproductive to what we really desire our lives to be, since we are trying to fill the void from a place of lack.

Universal Laws tells us a different story.

We have to fill the void first. We do this by understanding our worthiness. We have to embrace our lives and who we are. We do this by drowning out the voice that tells of our inferiority. This voice has been the greater part of us. This is the antagonist that now lives within. The ego part of us. "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

When we believe in our lack then whatever experience we have in our life is coming from a place of lack and will only produce more lack. This is why positive transactions with money seems to be brief and fleeting. It is the reason why failed relationships and unwanted experiences happen. It is why our happiness is transient. We only seem to hold on to the good, desired parts for short periods of time.

There is a discord between what we desire and our chronic habit of thought.

Thought is where your power is. When you give persistent thoughts of lack and unworthiness you actually confirm these ideas. That is to say the antagonist/ego is given full reign to run your life, and it will always pick the side of lack and unworthiness.

We have to learn how worthy we are. This is where our true power lies. Our real job is to change our views about the reality we would prefer to see about ourselves. This means we have to recognize our own brilliance, our gifted talents. We all have them. We can have money, genuine relationships, great experiences filled with joy and happiness if we fill the void and understand that we are deserving of a wonderful life. This comes first. We have been doing this backwards. We have been trying to fill the void first with those desires so we can be happy. However, it tends to hinder rather than serve one’s purpose, since we have to find contentment and happiness from within first then all those desires will show up to add tremendously to that happiness we have already found. Like Attracts Like. This is a Universal Law.

How do you find your own self-worth?

Look out for Part Two in the next blog which will help you find these answers and freedom to the life you truly deserve. law of attraction, empowerment, personal development "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

 

In our book “Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy,” you will also find answer to these long asked questions.

 

Your Friend Pam

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

"Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

 

 

 

 

Conflict! How do you Cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?




Conflict seems to play a major role in most people’s life experiences. The question is how should we react when the drama and conflict shows up to avoid being involved within it?

First, we have to understand what makes us react. What are our thoughts telling us at the immediate moment the conflict arrived on our doorstep? We have to be aware of what conflict initiates in our mind when it presents itself. The ego plays a major role in our reaction to things. Ego thoughts are those of resentment and grievances. It tells us we’re the victim and constantly reminds us of all the reasons why this conflict manifested. The "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"ego places blame and the more injured emotionally you feel the more the ego mind can maneuver you to more of what you don’t want, and that is profound drama. The ego will often hurl you to a place you would rather not go. At times losing the people you love because the ego loves to take advantage of the helpless you.

Where does the helpless me come from?

There is a false sense of the helpless me. It stems from fear. It is the thinking mind, the ego part of thoughts that is persuasive. It is the thinking part that actually convinces the helpless me to react out of a false awareness. Conflicts present themselves constantly and all they are is a situation or a person that says or does something opposite to what we agree with. It then becomes an unconscious psychic struggle. In many cases resulting in a hurtful clash. For some people a clash that may never resolve itself, or worse changing the relationship to “my enemy”.



We are not helpless. We are much more powerful than we believe. When we are in our power we have no need to allow the ego to take control. We are in control of our lives, and any situations that conflict presents.

When we are in our power the victim part of us dissolves into the backdrop of our lives. The helpless me cannot be in full force if we understand our ego mind and the way it works.

How do me and W.T handle this?

All who have read our articles and books and have been on this website before hopefully now know that me and W.T are mother and son. We work together. However, we have many different ideas. I am more spiritually centered and W.T is the logical part of this arrangement.

We often have disagreements to what our vision is. We are frequently far apart when it "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"comes to which way we should move our ideas forward. Our different age group plays a major role in how we handle things. Nevertheless, we have learned to agree to disagree. We have given each other permission to be who they want to be. Sometimes my hair stands on end and my eyes roll when I look at some of W.T’s youtube videos. And I know for sure W.T doesn’t share my endless chats about Esther Hicks, Abraham.

So what!! What is the big deal if we don’t agree? Why should we break up this wonderful partnership because we see things differently?

You see, there will always be disagreements and conflict in life. It is our reaction to it that makes it painful or not. The next time it presents itself in your life listen to what your inner voice is telling you. Is it the ego at play leading you on the wrong path? Listen. Always listen to the voice that is speaking. Is your self-talk really you, or is it the helpless you, the ego that has full control?

Take your control back. Listen to what the thinking mind is telling you and then change it harmoniously to where you would rather be in life. Simply put, reach for happiness first to avoid the pain of conflict. In other words, don’t take life quite so serious.

 

Your Friend, Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

 

 

Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought

What has been difficult for most people, I have found, is that they don’t get the concept of how powerful thought is. We have learned that if we are born within a nucleus that is struggling we have no other choice than to go along with that struggle. We have never learned the importance and the power of thought. We believe that what we call fate is all we have in life and there are no choices only to make the most out of what we have.





“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve regardless of how many times you may have failed in the past or how lofty your aims and hopes may be.”

Napoleon Hill

 

What we haven’t understood is that we can change our destination at any point in time. This may be hard for some to believe especially if you’re in a place where your ultimate future seems to be doused in negativity and great limitation. But you are never stuck where you are. Never! You may be in prison, you may be in a country where there is constant war, you may be in a family where violence reigns. There are so many countless ways that negativity may dominate our lives and the message of hopelessness is the meditation-1087851_960_720 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"
emotion that is constantly with us. Even with all of this negativity surrounding one’s life it can be changed. There are people that have walked from war zones in Africa and escaped death to later become a doctor in America. There are countless stories of these sort of destination changes that a person can make.

To change your destination is to believe that you have a much better place in life to be than where you are right now. Why should you be born without choice and so many other people, it may seem to you, are born with so much choice? I am going to tell you without a doubt that you alone can change your destination by starting to believe right from where you are at this very moment in time that you are worthy of a much better and joyous life.





“You must first have the knowledge of your power; second, the courage to dare; third, the faith to do.”

Charles F. Haanel

 

How do you do this? You use your powerful thoughts to focus on the life that you so deserve. Make it your mission to focus on the details of the life that you would love to be living right now. If it’s money you need then see yourself with the money. It doesn’t matter if it’s lots of money just make it believable to you. Why I say believable to you is that if it isn’t deep in your subconscious you will place doubt if it’s not believable to you. If it is then img064 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"go for it no matter how enormous it may sound to anyone else. You see it’s your belief in what you think you deserve that counts. Once you get yourself to believe that you deserve a wonderful life with all of your desires met then the ideas, people and places start to change and the Universe opens up doors for you to go through, that were once walls. Everything starts to change. The most positive thing that you can do for yourself is to expect it. Expectation is a powerful place to be to manifest all of your ideas.

Start today and think your way to the wonderful life that you deserve. Remember the key to all of your desires is expectation along with the thought that you deserve it. And let me tell you, no matter who you are you are deserving and the Universe will give it all to you if you believe. This is your true destination believe it to be so.

"Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"
Your Friend Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.