3 Easy Ways to a True Relationship
No one ever comes to this earth to have the enormous responsibility of satisfy another’s needs. Yet this is what most people believe. They believe that the person that loves them must be what they want them to be. They put false expectations on that person and the relationship turns sour after some time, in accordance to how broad a person’s need is that the partner should be who they want them to be. Sometimes both partners live under this mistaken foundation, this is when the relationship becomes quite intolerable for both parties.
When we look for a person to fill all of our needs we will always feel let down because such a person is impossible to find especially a person that we believe we can change. We are all born with certain personality traits and as difficult it is to change ourselves it is difficult for someone to shake off all of those underlying messages that run through their mind about who they are, also.
So we’ve been delivered some erroneous ideas about ourselves over the years especially from childhood where we took all false messages about who we really are to be truths, and we’ve not only lived with these ideas of how we’re supposed to be, do and act, now we’re asked to be, do and act even differently because we are committed to a new expectation in our relationship.
We ourselves have a unimaginable time trying to make this great change yet-again in our life, so how do we expect another to do that for us? Continue reading 3 Easy Ways to a True Relationship