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Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want

Most people are the antagonist of their own story. Part One.

Without realizing this we have built a wall up that will stop any true desires of abundance, health and happiness reaching us.

How did this happen?

It happened quite easily because we have been conditioned to the belief of lack, as our parents have and their parents before them. In fact, it was a way to take control of the masses since the second century AD. The antagonist was the authoritative force of law that we feared at that time. We then allowed this force to change our beliefs. The problem is we "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"are still using these contrasting beliefs today. Most people conclude that their lives should be a struggle. Due to this inaccurate notion they have learned to attract lack. This is the void they live with.

Owing to centuries of this erroneous influence our lives have taken us in the wrong direction. Unfortunately, we are still living our lives from this backward conception through those antagonists that had existed so long ago.

This is how the masses live: most believe that life is a struggle and that it always will be. Simply put, they believe that this is what their journey consists of: deficiency, deprivation, need and emptiness. This becomes the void that most are trying to fill. This voice of insufficiency is constantly playing in the mind.

The antagonist then is the ego.

The antagonist/ego now is a part of you. It no longer lives on the outside. It is that voice that temps you to fill the void with: unworthiness, unwelcome things, failed relationships and unwanted experiences. It is an expert at this because you have bought into these beliefs by default.

Almost all of what we do runs counterproductive to what we really desire our lives to be, since we are trying to fill the void from a place of lack.

Universal Laws tells us a different story.

We have to fill the void first. We do this by understanding our worthiness. We have to embrace our lives and who we are. We do this by drowning out the voice that tells of our inferiority. This voice has been the greater part of us. This is the antagonist that now lives within. The ego part of us. "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"

When we believe in our lack then whatever experience we have in our life is coming from a place of lack and will only produce more lack. This is why positive transactions with money seems to be brief and fleeting. It is the reason why failed relationships and unwanted experiences happen. It is why our happiness is transient. We only seem to hold on to the good, desired parts for short periods of time.

There is a discord between what we desire and our chronic habit of thought.

Thought is where your power is. When you give persistent thoughts of lack and unworthiness you actually confirm these ideas. That is to say the antagonist/ego is given full reign to run your life, and it will always pick the side of lack and unworthiness.

We have to learn how worthy we are. This is where our true power lies. Our real job is to change our views about the reality we would prefer to see about ourselves. This means we have to recognize our own brilliance, our gifted talents. We all have them. We can have money, genuine relationships, great experiences filled with joy and happiness if we fill the void and understand that we are deserving of a wonderful life. This comes first. We have been doing this backwards. We have been trying to fill the void first with those desires so we can be happy. However, it tends to hinder rather than serve one’s purpose, since we have to find contentment and happiness from within first then all those desires will show up to add tremendously to that happiness we have already found. Like Attracts Like. This is a Universal Law.

How do you find your own self-worth?

Look out for Part Two in the next blog which will help you find these answers and freedom to the life you truly deserve. law of attraction, empowerment, personal development "Are We Our Own Antagonist? How to Manifest What We Really Want"


In our book “Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy,” you will also find answer to these long asked questions.


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Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought

What has been difficult for most people, I have found, is that they don’t get the concept of how powerful thought is. We have learned that if we are born within a nucleus that is struggling we have no other choice than to go along with that struggle. We have never learned the importance and the power of thought. We believe that what we call fate is all we have in life and there are no choices only to make the most out of what we have.

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve regardless of how many times you may have failed in the past or how lofty your aims and hopes may be.”

Napoleon Hill


What we haven’t understood is that we can change our destination at any point in time. This may be hard for some to believe especially if you’re in a place where your ultimate future seems to be doused in negativity and great limitation. But you are never stuck where you are. Never! You may be in prison, you may be in a country where there is constant war, you may be in a family where violence reigns. There are so many countless ways that negativity may dominate our lives and the message of hopelessness is the meditation-1087851_960_720 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"
emotion that is constantly with us. Even with all of this negativity surrounding one’s life it can be changed. There are people that have walked from war zones in Africa and escaped death to later become a doctor in America. There are countless stories of these sort of destination changes that a person can make.

To change your destination is to believe that you have a much better place in life to be than where you are right now. Why should you be born without choice and so many other people, it may seem to you, are born with so much choice? I am going to tell you without a doubt that you alone can change your destination by starting to believe right from where you are at this very moment in time that you are worthy of a much better and joyous life.

“You must first have the knowledge of your power; second, the courage to dare; third, the faith to do.”

Charles F. Haanel


How do you do this? You use your powerful thoughts to focus on the life that you so deserve. Make it your mission to focus on the details of the life that you would love to be living right now. If it’s money you need then see yourself with the money. It doesn’t matter if it’s lots of money just make it believable to you. Why I say believable to you is that if it isn’t deep in your subconscious you will place doubt if it’s not believable to you. If it is then img064 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"go for it no matter how enormous it may sound to anyone else. You see it’s your belief in what you think you deserve that counts. Once you get yourself to believe that you deserve a wonderful life with all of your desires met then the ideas, people and places start to change and the Universe opens up doors for you to go through, that were once walls. Everything starts to change. The most positive thing that you can do for yourself is to expect it. Expectation is a powerful place to be to manifest all of your ideas.

Start today and think your way to the wonderful life that you deserve. Remember the key to all of your desires is expectation along with the thought that you deserve it. And let me tell you, no matter who you are you are deserving and the Universe will give it all to you if you believe. This is your true destination believe it to be so.

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Your Friend Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.


Attachment vs. Detachment with Universal Laws

Give up your attachment to get the result of what you want.

One of the laws of the Universe is to use detachment to bring what you want into your life.  This means that you give up your attachment to the result of what you want. When you use attachment to anything then you are holding it close to you. The problem with this is that it cannot leave you. It is similar to that child in you, you know the one that holds tightly onto the toy that the other child wanted so much. We have learned if we want to keep something in our possession we have to hold onto it. However, this does not work with Universal laws.

When we hold onto the idea of anything we desire we do not allow the full possibilities of 095 "Attachment vs. Detachment with Universal Laws"that desire to manifest. Beneath attachment to anything is fear, always! Clinging to something shows fear. We are always fearful of letting it go. We believe that our attachment to it will bring security. We have not learned how detachment works. Attachment interferes with the entire process of infinite creation.

Most people use attachment with the idea of money.

They feel that holding on to money tightly will help it to accumulate. Our attachment is to the idea that we will find security this way. Yet, it never actually gives us the security we believe it will, because it goes against Universal Laws. It doesn’t mean that you should let all of your money just float away. Detachment means that when you pay any bills you can do so without feeling threatened, or fear. You let your money go without telling yourself that you are losing money, or with resentment. Instead change your thoughts to the way you profit from whatever it is you are paying for.

Here are some ways to help you to use detachment:

  • Your bills may be for your food, gas, hydro (electricity) your cell phone, your internet, mortgage, rent. This list could go on and on. Pay these bills with gratitude and let the money go freely.
  • Be happy that you have these utilities and amenities in your life which make your life much more pleasant.
  • When you pay a bill think of the value you have for your money, what life would be without them.
  • If you didn’t have a job or a way to bring money to your life you would focus on how to have these things so don’t take them for granted.

We always look for security and yet what is security?

According to Universal Laws we have it all backwards. You see actually security doesn’t come from attachment. Attachment doesn’t offer the protection we are looking for. Connected to energy abraham-hicks "Attachment vs. Detachment with Universal Laws"Detachment is the only way we can find freedom. The universal forces cannot work in your life to bring you more money, more health or more joy if you are living in fear of not having any of these desires. When you are fearful of parting with your money, you will attract more ways to part with your money. Perhaps your washing machine will break down, or your stove may stop working. There are many ways life can attract those unwanted things if we live with attachment.

Detachment is not fear based. It means getting out of the way so that Universal Powers can take over without interference. Fear based ideas always block Universal Power because the fear of losing something is working against Universal Laws and you. These powers do not work in the negative field only the positive field.

    • Belief in Universal Powers is detachment. It means you have got out of the way.
    • You have set your desire free when you are able to remove yourself from the attachment which holds you there.

    • Letting go to attachment is allowing that desire to manifest, always in every case.

Here is some thoughts from Deepak Chopra’s http://www.chopra.com/articles/the-law-of-detachmentbook ‘The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success’

I will put the Law of Detachment into effect by making a commitment to take the following steps:


  1. Today I will commit myself to detachment. I will allow myself and those around me the freedom to be as they are. I will not rigidly impose my idea of how things should be. I will not force solutions on problems, thereby creating new problems. I will participate in everything with detached involvement.
  2. Today I will factor in uncertainty as an essential ingredient of my experience. In my willingness to accept uncertainty, solutions will spontaneously emerge out of the problem, out of the confusion, disorder, and chaos. The more uncertain things seem to be, the more secure I will feel, because uncertainty is my path to freedom. Through the wisdom of uncertainty, I will find my security.
  3. I will step into the field of all possibilities and anticipate the excitement that can occur when I remain open to an infinity of choices. When I step into the field of all possibilities, I will experience all the fun, adventure, magic, and mystery of life.

Deepak Chopra

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company.

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We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.


We All Want Money But Can We Think Ourselves Rich?

Money! Money! Money! Can you think yourself rich? Does it work?

If so, how do you go about it?

In order to answer this question, you must first determine what your subconscious thoughts are regarding money. When you read money, money, money what is your gut feeling?

Did you know that energetic breakthrough and mastering your personal vibration frequency hold the secret to abundance, happiness and success?

Your thoughts, in essence, create your reality. Money itself has no power; it is neither good nor bad. Your thoughts and ideals about money determine your beliefs about money. Continue reading We All Want Money But Can We Think Ourselves Rich?

100 Dollars. What Can You Do With 100 Dollars?

100 dollars. What can you do with 100 dollars? Where can you go with 100 dollars?

As I wrote this I realized that 100 dollars is not a lot of money in North America. But I believe that everyone should carry 100 dollars in their wallet or purse.


I’m not talking about debit cards or credit cards, i’m talking about cash money, paper money. There is nothing that can replace the feeling of having 100 dollars cash in your hand. Being able to leaf through that money and feel the power of it. To know all the things you can do with it, all the places you can use it. Continue reading 100 Dollars. What Can You Do With 100 Dollars?

How to Create a Positive Relationship with Money

Our book How to Create a Positive Relationship with money is about building new views and beliefs. We answer the question, What is abundance and how are we to get it?


create Positive relationship test cover 10We’ve been so conditioned to limitations that it becomes a tremendous obstacle to even entertain the possibilities of abundance. Due to this handicap we have formed a pattern of lack and limitation which is unyielding in our psyche.

Our book will help you to break this pattern and replace it with a positive pattern. Building new ways to see money and new beliefs about money. It will empower you and give you power over money. Continue reading How to Create a Positive Relationship with Money

If your Dream Life comes Knocking

If your dream life comes knocking tomorrow will you be ready to live it? Most people will say “of course I’m ready! What kind of stupid question is that?” But if your dream life comes knocking tomorrow are you really ready to live it?

Maybe it never really occurred to you that you should give some thought to this? Maybe you just thought that you jump into your dream life and start living. This is something that Dream Lifemany people don’t consider.

  • They have a dream life in their mind but are they really prepared to live it?
  • What does the question mean?
  • What is it really asking?

I watch American football a lot. I love football. I miss it every time it finishes in February. It seems so long of a wait for it to start again. But I don’t just watch the game, I study it. I study how the coach’s make decisions, how the players react to injuries, how teams prepare for the games. I find it very interesting.

One of the things that I have noticed is that every player dreams about making it to the NFL. It is all they are focused on until they achieve it. Their whole life is based around reaching this goal. It is their dream life. Continue reading If your Dream Life comes Knocking

Free Money is Good Money

Positive relationship test cover 10Free money, who doesn’t love that. It is a great feeling when you get something for free. But how many times do you actually get free money? How many times does free money just land in your wallet?

The reality is, free money finds your wallet all the time. You just need to notice it, acknowledge it, and be grateful for it. So now you’re wondering what I am talking about right?

My story Chapter 5.2 … I was at a store the other day and I needed to buy some items dollars-426023_640List a lot smallerthat I always buy. These items cost around $120.00. I made my usual purchase and continued my day. A few days past and I decided to sign up for a night school course to learn French. The course cost $190.00. I paid for it and planned to go. The next day I checked my bank account (Mainly because I like to look at the numbers) and I found a wonderful surprise. I received $120.00 credit from the store I bought my products from. It was unexpected and amazing. I was so happy and grateful to receive this free money. In total I got the product for free and the course only cost me $70.00.  Who doesn’t like that?

I often go to the store and find things that I was planning to buy are on sale that week. I never buy more than I am planning to buy instead I let the extra money stay in my bank account or wallet. I always try to stop and give gratitude for the savings.

Give Gratitude for the Free Money

  • It is important to acknowledge the free money. Realize that you are gaining even if it is only a few cents.
  • Feel good about the free money. The more you feel good about it the more that feeling of having lots of money will grow in your subconscious mind.
  • When you see the savings instead of the spending’s you start to feel good about bank-note free moneyletting your money go. Holding on to money for fear that you will not have enough later is stopping you from having more.
  • Be grateful for all the good things that your money does for you. Your money is a tool to help you secure joy and happiness. Every time you receive free money it is helping you to get closer to securing joy and happiness. Make sure you don’t take it for granted.


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What do I call Free Money?
  • Things that are on sale that you would buy anyways.
  • Free coffee, lunch, dinners (when someone else pays)
  • Rebates
  • Writing cheques that are not cashed right away. ( you collect a few extra days of interest)
  • Anything that doesn’t take money out of your pocket or get you to buy more quantity than you planned.
Sometimes the free money is big, sometimes it is small but every time it is awesome. Look for it, find it and feel great that you have it.

Cause everyone loves free money right?

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"Free Money is Good Money"Author Bio: W.T. Hamilton is the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the President of the Your Invincible Power Company. We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.