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How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams

Becoming Centered is to find the true you in your story.

When you’re centered you realize you’re the person you should love first. The person you should respect and only want the very best for. This is where your invincible power actually lies. Regardless, it may be that your parent or parents taught you to believe in yourself and "How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"then the rest of the world took the power away from that belief. You may have been taught that you had to sacrifice your happiness to make others happy. There has been a prerequisite, so to speak, from this world and that is: you must not be centered in love for yourself for it is selfish.

And yet the opposite to this is the truth.

If you’re not centered in love and respect for yourself, you cannot honestly give love and respect for others and truly mean it. This is why so many relationships do not work out. Universal Laws always work in the opposite direction to our beliefs. And so if we can’t find true love for ourselves we cannot attract those wonderful people, places and situations that we so desire into our lives.

Some people are so far from there center that they feel they have to control others to receive what they want or feel they need.

This is the truth about how Universal Laws operate:

  • When people try to control others to act the way they want them to, it never works.
  • When people try to manipulate others to do what they want them to do, it never works.
  • When people try to influence others for the purpose of making themselves happy. They will not gain happiness from it.
  • When people threaten others with fear it may seem to work for a short time before their own life starts to fall apart. They will never find happiness this way.

The reason this happens is because they are looking to others to find their happiness. This is the void that we talked about in the previous article. They believe that if this other person will act and do what they want, then they will feel contented. Universal laws always tell us that if we are centered in our love for ourselves first and foremost, then we don’t need any other to change the way they think and act for us. Simply put, when a person is centered they attract others that are also centered in love for themselves and do not need another to change their ways to make them happy. Both parties in this sort of relationship can feel joyful without convincing the other to be what they want them to be.

When you are centered:

  • You manifest the right situations to you that bring you joy.
  • When you feel in your center you attract those people you want to be around.
  • When you enjoy being who you truly are you attract abundance in your life easily.
  • When you are centered you do not fear what others think about you."How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"
  • When you are centered you are not in fear of unwanted events.
  • When you are centered you love your own company, as well as others.
  • When you feel in your center you only attract a life of joy.
  • When you are centered there is no void to fill.

If you find it hard to love and respect yourself this is the Universe showing you that you are in a state of resistance.

  • You always feel an emptiness.
  • You feel down about yourself.
  • You believe that you do not stack up to others in your life who you may look up to.

You know when you are truly centered because you feel happy, joyous and alive.    

Feeling centered is about detachment from unwanted things. It is letting go of the attachment to that voice which is at the helm of those misguided thoughts of unworthiness.

We’ve all been there. The changes that I have found since I’ve come to understand these infinite laws is: life does not work out to my advantage if I ignore my strong feelings of negativity. In other words, when I meet head on with a negative choice, situation or person and ignore any strong feelings of conflict, I see negative consequences soon enter my life. To the contrary, I always feel good when I make good feeling choices.

“Nobody else knows your reason for being. You do. Your bliss guides you to it. When you follow your bliss, when you follow your path to joy, your conversation is of joy, your feelings are of joy — you’re right on the path of that which you intended when you came forth into this physical body”Abraham-Hicks

These feelings are our guidance. We have called it intuition, perception, sixth sense and premonition among many names. These deep feelings are your discernment of the choices in life which you are offered. This guidance is your invincible power which will keep you "How to Become Truly Centered and Manifest a Life of Your Dreams"centered to find good feeling thoughts. This is what W.T and I talk about so much. This is why you have to feel your way through life. This invincible power within will guide you through those negative thoughts you contemplate daily. You become alert to those warning bells, and the opposite of that is the good feeling sensations when it is to your advantage.

In our Book, Your Invincible Power, Open The Door To Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy  you will find many answers to the questions you have. This is a book of guidance to bring you to the life that you want to manifest. We wrote this with you in mind, who are coming to an awakening to the real you.

In Part Four I will tell you how to: Use Your Invincible Guidance System to Manifest the Life You Would Rather Live.

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Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.


Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought

What has been difficult for most people, I have found, is that they don’t get the concept of how powerful thought is. We have learned that if we are born within a nucleus that is struggling we have no other choice than to go along with that struggle. We have never learned the importance and the power of thought. We believe that what we call fate is all we have in life and there are no choices only to make the most out of what we have.

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve regardless of how many times you may have failed in the past or how lofty your aims and hopes may be.”

Napoleon Hill


What we haven’t understood is that we can change our destination at any point in time. This may be hard for some to believe especially if you’re in a place where your ultimate future seems to be doused in negativity and great limitation. But you are never stuck where you are. Never! You may be in prison, you may be in a country where there is constant war, you may be in a family where violence reigns. There are so many countless ways that negativity may dominate our lives and the message of hopelessness is the meditation-1087851_960_720 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"
emotion that is constantly with us. Even with all of this negativity surrounding one’s life it can be changed. There are people that have walked from war zones in Africa and escaped death to later become a doctor in America. There are countless stories of these sort of destination changes that a person can make.

To change your destination is to believe that you have a much better place in life to be than where you are right now. Why should you be born without choice and so many other people, it may seem to you, are born with so much choice? I am going to tell you without a doubt that you alone can change your destination by starting to believe right from where you are at this very moment in time that you are worthy of a much better and joyous life.

“You must first have the knowledge of your power; second, the courage to dare; third, the faith to do.”

Charles F. Haanel


How do you do this? You use your powerful thoughts to focus on the life that you so deserve. Make it your mission to focus on the details of the life that you would love to be living right now. If it’s money you need then see yourself with the money. It doesn’t matter if it’s lots of money just make it believable to you. Why I say believable to you is that if it isn’t deep in your subconscious you will place doubt if it’s not believable to you. If it is then img064 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"go for it no matter how enormous it may sound to anyone else. You see it’s your belief in what you think you deserve that counts. Once you get yourself to believe that you deserve a wonderful life with all of your desires met then the ideas, people and places start to change and the Universe opens up doors for you to go through, that were once walls. Everything starts to change. The most positive thing that you can do for yourself is to expect it. Expectation is a powerful place to be to manifest all of your ideas.

Start today and think your way to the wonderful life that you deserve. Remember the key to all of your desires is expectation along with the thought that you deserve it. And let me tell you, no matter who you are you are deserving and the Universe will give it all to you if you believe. This is your true destination believe it to be so.

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Your Friend Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.


Why Do We Focus on the Worst Case Scenario?

The worse case scenario seemed to be what we are attracted to the most.

Whenever there is a potential for something good in our lives, our mind starts to play the ‘what if’ game. We go through a series of all the things that could possibly go wrong, and we focus on each one until we have talked ourselves out of the potential.



But what would happen if we only focused on the best case scenario? What would happen if we could really convince ourselves that the best case scenario was the only outcome we would experience?  

Continue reading Why Do We Focus on the Worst Case Scenario?

Don’t Accept, Expect. Create the Life You Desire

Don’t accept, expect. You want change but what are you expecting?What do you expect to change right now? What is the purpose for your now?

Don’t accept, expect.

It means simply accepting that this is your life is equal to saying I am done being ambitious, I have done all I need to do. It is saying this is all I deserve and this is all I am allowed to have.

What if your journey hasn’t yet started? What if you have yet to discover your what?

What you expect out of life is what you will get. If you don’t expect greatness why would the universe bring it into your life? If you allow yourself to be limited then you will only achieve to your limits. You need to expect more from your life than what you have now. You need to believe that you can achieve it and stay focused on it. Don’t accept that this life you have today is the life you are limited to tomorrow. Continue reading Don’t Accept, Expect. Create the Life You Desire

There is Never a Right Time

There is never a right time, there is never a wrong time, there is just time. Think about that for a moment. There is never a right time, there is just time. Think about what that means? If there is never a right time or a wrong time then it means you decide when the time isThere is never a right time right.

You decide. Time doesn’t decide. Time doesn’t even care. Time will go on whether you are ready or not. This now becomes a conscious decision that you must make all the time. There is never a right time or a wrong time. There is just your time.

How to Use this Knowledge Continue reading There is Never a Right Time

Getting an iPhone for Free?

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My daughter wanted an iPhone. She had an iPod for the last few years and it had seen better days. She wanted an iPhone for many months. This was something that was definitely on her mind and in her thoughts. The hurdle was, she doesn’t have money for an iPhone.

Opportunity knocks

Not long ago I dropped my iPhone and the screen shattered as they so easily do. It was unusable.  This is where opportunity presented itself. She asked me if she could have the old broken phone. Her plan was to bring the phone to the mall and find out how much it would cost to replace the screen. I gave her the iPhone and the quest began. Continue reading Getting an iPhone for Free?

Celebrate The Little Steps

Celebrate the little steps along the way is an easy way to stay focused on achieving your goals. I use this technique all the time.

I find it makes a big difference in allowing me to be patient with the pace of the journey.One of the secrets of the universe is that everything you achieve comes from effort. The amount of effort you put in is the amount of fruit you get back. As we said before the Universe mirror’s back to you what you think about and focus on.


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So, how do I use this technique? Continue reading Celebrate The Little Steps

Words. How Do They Affect Our Lives?

Words can be powerful. They can shape ones view of the world. They can encourage greatness.

Words can be uplifting or abusive. They have the power to stop something from happening or can be the fuel for the fire.

The truth is, words have energy.

fountain-pen-447576_640 wordsThis energy can be negative or positive. The opinions of people fueled with negative emotion can be a recipe for disaster. You can look to the aftermath in Ferguson for example. The words that came from there were powerful and grabbed the attention of the nation and beyond. More recently we can see how written words fueled terrorism and worldwide fear in Paris.  I was directly affected by this when traveling to the USA this week. A routine border crossing was anything but routine as the security was heightened in light of the attacks in Paris.  This is how powerful words are. Although I was not following the story and really had no opinion or value to add to the conversation, I was effected by it. Continue reading Words. How Do They Affect Our Lives?