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How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement

Part Four:
How to Use Your Invincible Guidance System To Your Benefit
What is our guidance system?

Our guidance system is a natural part of us that instinctively takes over our thoughts in a positive way. It is the intelligent part that speaks words that we weren’t sure we knew. We see this when deep into an explanation of something we give a precise account of what we want to say. Our "How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement"words are spontaneous and seem to just pop out of our mouths. I’m sure you’ve been there. I have many times. Our guidance is the inner part of us that assists us when we make choices. It always picks out the best case scenario and it is in our best interest to follow this guidance.

There are many ways to find this guidance but the wisest and easiest way to find it is by feeling your way to it. This means when you are facing a choice, especially a tough one, take the time to question any possibilities that could be the answer to the situation. A good way to do this is by asking yourself, “what would I like to see instead of this situation that is presenting itself.” When you do this imagine that new situation. See yourself with the best case scenario.

Be aware of what your feelings offer while you imagine this solution.

Your guidance will give you the sensation of clarity, harmony and alignment when you find the right solution. Your deepest feelings of acceptance to this idea will be the answer you’re looking for. This is your guidance at its best working for your best interest. If you focus on the wrong answer you will feel unsettled, you will question the idea you are contemplating. Nothing about it will feel right.

When questions arise in negative ways your feelings will be of:

  • Doubt
  • Adversity
  • Misfortune
  • Affliction
  • Hurt
  • Harm
  • Ruination
  • Misery
  • Woe

Also, suffering, distress and bereavement among many negative feelings, according to what situation is presented to you at the time. These feelings are telling you that you are not in alignment with the best case scenario that your guidance is offering you. Your guidance will always give you the positive feeling which will tell you to move in another direction.

This guidance is also called our intuition.

We’ve all been aware of this at some stage in our life. It kicks in when there is major danger ahead that fight or flight instinct, where you stay and face the music or run from the oncoming danger. You usually know what to do in such dangerous situations. Regardless, our guidance is with us constantly. When we feel our way to it we always find the best possible pathway to take.

This is what happened to me a short while ago. I had some grocery shopping to do and I also had to go to the post office. The post office is in the same plaza as a Sobeys store. Before I went into the post office I debated within myself whether to go to Sobeys to do my shopping or to go across town and do it at the Walmart center where I could also buy some "How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement"other items that Sobeys didn’t sell. I pondered this while I was waiting in line at the post office and my feelings were strongly to do it at Sobeys. I was already right next to this store and was not in immediate need of the other items. When I came out of the post office, however, I instantly changed my mind against the feelings that was strongly playing within me. I decided to go to Walmart. Even as I drove I had the strong inkling to turn around. I didn’t. When I got to Walmart I did my grocery shopping and loaded the other items into my cart. Suddenly, over the speakers an employee asked everyone to leave their shopping and shopping carts and evacuate the store immediately. The message kept repeating. Police were suddenly everywhere quickly moving us from the store. Apparently there had been a bomb threat. A young man said he was wearing a bomb I learned from the news report later that evening.

I came out of the place ruffled to say the least.

I felt drained from the negative energy this shocking experience had brought with it. I went home heart pounding. I was in no mood to go to another store to shop yet again, that day. I had wasted a couple of hours shopping to no avail because I didn’t listen to my guidance system which had sent me strong feelings not to go.

I was totally appreciative that no one was hurt. Regardless, when there are such strong instincts going on within me, I know never to ignore them again.

Nevertheless, this guidance isn’t there only in the fight or flight scenario it is with us in all of our daily activities, choices and decisions. They only scream at us so loud and clear in cases such as I’ve just mentioned. Usually they are supple and quiet. They get much louder when you ignore them and then they show up in your life in negative situations, things and people.

Take a quiet time to feel for the guidance that is offered to you in any situation you are looking for answers to.

They will show up. Always ask for the best your life can be, expect it and feel your way to it. Your guidance will steer you on the right path, without fail.

This is what Anita Moorjani, Abraham and other teachers call living from the inside out!

“I can’t say this strongly enough, but our feelings about ourselves are actually the most important barometer for determining the condition of our lives!” 
Anita MoorjaniDying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing

We have a book series that will show you many ways to find out how to use your guidance system. Your Invincible Power Series

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which "How to Use Your Guidance System For Your Advancement"assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela


Up to Date! This is Where We Get UP and Personal About Us

Personal Up to Date True Life Stories

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get Up and Personal About Us"
Me and my husband Clinton in Jamaica

Welcome to our up to date page. This is where we get up and personal about us. By us I mean me, Pamela Hamilton and W.T. Hamilton. W.T is my eldest son. I have three sons. I am married to Clinton Hamilton and we have six grandchildren. We get together very often as a family with my other two sons and their families, also other relatives in our family. I place these times of family association highly valuable in my life. Clinton and I met in Leicester, England and married and had W.T there. We now live in Ontario, Canada. Clinton is originally Jamaican and went to England when a boy so is very English in many ways, lol! My family here are mainly on Clinton’s side of the family. My side stayed in Leicester.

Those of you who visit us frequently know W.T and I have written five books together, and I wrote a fictional book independently.

However, this page is to let you in on what is going on behind the scenes of this website with both me and W.T.

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get Up and Personal About Us"
Me and my son, W.T at one of our book signings

Those of you who follow Abraham-Hicks Daily Quotes must have noticed that they stopped being daily for a few months and I integrated them with the Inspirational Quotes. Well it happened because “something” stopped me from editing those particular pages, and therefore adding more new quotes. I had called our website host ‘Fatcow’ to find out why I couldn’t access this page. Although this host has been effective in their help prior, for some unknown reason they couldn’t get me back into the edit part of the page. Anyway, out of the blue last week I couldn’t get onto the Inspirational quotes either. Imagine how p’d off I was feeling. Not too harmonious I can tell you!! Now however, I don’t have the old reaction that I normally would have and calmly called our host once more. I was on hold at Fatcow for simply ages it would seem, and on top of that the associate couldn’t help and put me on hold again while she passed the call on to someone who knew more about it. I must admit I got fed up and hung up. But while I did this I said to myself I have more power over this. I’ll see it as being done as if they had already fixed it. I left it alone for the remaining part of the day. When I tried it the next morning both pages had become accessible again. This happens to me through different situations many times now, especially if I can get myself into a place of belief and then let it go. It could have been that the message was sent on and the person in the other department fixed it without my involvement. It could have been many things but regardless I believe that sometimes we just have to let go and believe in our own individual power. I wanted to share this with you because I feel that it is all quite fascinating? I give much appreciation when it works out to my advantage.

Latest news: W.T is doing podcast and I believe if you listen to them you will learn how to take charge of your life and be in the power zone that both W.T and I find ourselves in so often.

My son is trying his hardest to get me involved in the youtube videos. I have done a few when we started out and I am never pleased with the results. In fact, two years ago I did one about the ego called ‘Ego and Manifesting’  It took us so long, to make this. W.T kept having to restart it over and over. When I finally finished and he edited it and put it out live I realized just how many times I called our book, ‘How to Tame Your Ego and Fuel Your Imagination’ When it should have been and Fuel Your Ambition!! What happens is I get nervous and all of those wonderful words I want to say drift away. W.T has been very patient but I can tell you I’ve wasted so much time trying to make them and given up. Regardless, I have a great idea which I am working on from the book called, “What’s Your Message,” by Cam Barber. It really is a great book for public speaking. I had followed W.T’s advice and tried ‘Toastmasters’ prior but it really wasn’t for me. The people were absolutely welcoming and very supportive, even so, it opened up another part of my journey, not a good one, and at that time I came to realize that part of me that was unresolved. This is a part of me that was still living in that unworthiness part of my life deep within. I have been able to understand health abundance and overcame rheumatoid arthritis and some other health issues. I understood that health is deep within our belief system and what may be activated through those beliefs whether positive or negative.

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get UP and Personal About Us"
We All Have Personal Stories

Nevertheless, public speaking was not my forte. I came to realize that my journey of public speaking would take me on a visit to my past and see what was within my subconscious that made me so fearful. What was this obstacle I was harboring from past beliefs? I became aware that when I was little we were told to be seen and not heard. This had nothing to do with my home life that was free and full of wonderful experiences. But my dad’s mom, my grandma was a woman who had strong convictions and voiced them often. When we visited us kids were told to sit quietly. We even put our hands up to ask to go to the washroom. Those visits were long and boring. Me and my sisters and brother were extremely excited if grandma told us to go outside and play. This is what we did in front of important people – we kept our mouths shut. That was our belief. Now I understand this I have an open door to change this, and I will. Just as Stephen R. Covey said in ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ “I can tie myself to my limitless potential instead of my limiting past.” So this is what I am working on. I can’t yet tell you when my youtube video will be ready but I am working on it!

I know that I can hide behind this website and blogs and so forth but I am motivated to share with you all what I have learned and learning. “What’s Your Message,” by Cam Barber really works for me. I shall forge forward and get beyond this interruption in my journey.

In the mean-time W.T has been wonderful in providing our message in many amazing videos and now his new podcast which offers ways for you to also open the door to positive change in your life.

I can honestly say that what we are passing forward works, truthfully. Since I started this journey my life has been phenomenal. Its direction changed enormously and it is joyous

So, this page is about what we are working on. What obstacles we come up with and how we can overcome them and it’s about joining up with you which is our mission. In other words, we love your input also. I believe we are one and are all here to share with one another.

"Up to Date! This is Where We Get UP and Personal About Us"
Your Friend, Pamela

Love you all,

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.


Conflict! How do you Cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?

Conflict seems to play a major role in most people’s life experiences. The question is how should we react when the drama and conflict shows up to avoid being involved within it?

First, we have to understand what makes us react. What are our thoughts telling us at the immediate moment the conflict arrived on our doorstep? We have to be aware of what conflict initiates in our mind when it presents itself. The ego plays a major role in our reaction to things. Ego thoughts are those of resentment and grievances. It tells us we’re the victim and constantly reminds us of all the reasons why this conflict manifested. The "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"ego places blame and the more injured emotionally you feel the more the ego mind can maneuver you to more of what you don’t want, and that is profound drama. The ego will often hurl you to a place you would rather not go. At times losing the people you love because the ego loves to take advantage of the helpless you.

Where does the helpless me come from?

There is a false sense of the helpless me. It stems from fear. It is the thinking mind, the ego part of thoughts that is persuasive. It is the thinking part that actually convinces the helpless me to react out of a false awareness. Conflicts present themselves constantly and all they are is a situation or a person that says or does something opposite to what we agree with. It then becomes an unconscious psychic struggle. In many cases resulting in a hurtful clash. For some people a clash that may never resolve itself, or worse changing the relationship to “my enemy”.

We are not helpless. We are much more powerful than we believe. When we are in our power we have no need to allow the ego to take control. We are in control of our lives, and any situations that conflict presents.

When we are in our power the victim part of us dissolves into the backdrop of our lives. The helpless me cannot be in full force if we understand our ego mind and the way it works.

How do me and W.T handle this?

All who have read our articles and books and have been on this website before hopefully now know that me and W.T are mother and son. We work together. However, we have many different ideas. I am more spiritually centered and W.T is the logical part of this arrangement.

We often have disagreements to what our vision is. We are frequently far apart when it "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"comes to which way we should move our ideas forward. Our different age group plays a major role in how we handle things. Nevertheless, we have learned to agree to disagree. We have given each other permission to be who they want to be. Sometimes my hair stands on end and my eyes roll when I look at some of W.T’s youtube videos. And I know for sure W.T doesn’t share my endless chats about Esther Hicks, Abraham.

So what!! What is the big deal if we don’t agree? Why should we break up this wonderful partnership because we see things differently?

You see, there will always be disagreements and conflict in life. It is our reaction to it that makes it painful or not. The next time it presents itself in your life listen to what your inner voice is telling you. Is it the ego at play leading you on the wrong path? Listen. Always listen to the voice that is speaking. Is your self-talk really you, or is it the helpless you, the ego that has full control?

Take your control back. Listen to what the thinking mind is telling you and then change it harmoniously to where you would rather be in life. Simply put, reach for happiness first to avoid the pain of conflict. In other words, don’t take life quite so serious.


Your Friend, Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.



Dream, Dream, What Does it Mean?

He woke up suddenly. There was a strange feeling, deep in his belly. It was the feeling of purpose, of urgency, of inspiration.

He felt that he needed to act right now but it was 4:11 a.m. What could he do at 4 in the morning? But he needed to do something so he got up and he went downstairs.


DreamHe had been dreaming. His dream was a vivid one. It was a dream that played like a movie. He was the main character in the dream. He was the star of the movie. He was the one who was living this dream. It seemed so real. He could see all the details of the events. Everything was unfolding in the way that dreams do. It was the kind of dream that leaves you wondering if it really happened or was it just a dream? Continue reading Dream, Dream, What Does it Mean?

Holding on so Tightly That It is Causing You Harm

He bit into his warm toast and quickly sipped his hot coffee. The chaos of the morning was about to burst into action. He knew it was only moments away.


It was Old Friend holding on the mentorat this time 6:11 A.M. that the thought emerged. Why was his old friend holding on so tightly to memories of the past? Why couldn’t his old friend move on? And then the chaos began.

The kids came down from their rooms and life was once again at full speed. Thoughts of old friends escaped as the focus was  now on the present moment. The mission was to get the kids to the bus on time. Nothing else matters. Lunches needed to be made, backpacks needed to be loaded, and breakfast needed to be served. This was the only thing on the agenda for the next 90 minutes. It was game time. Continue reading Holding on so Tightly That It is Causing You Harm

Action:The best time to start chasing your definition of living the dream was 5 minutes ago!

Life is all about action. Action moves life in a particular direction. It gives life the spice and vigor. It makes life alive.action clapper-board-152088_640

You cannot live your dream life without action. There are many people that think if you believe in the law of attraction that all you need to do is think and say affirmations and things will fall into place for you.


I’m here to tell you that this will seldom work for you. This is why so many people say that the law of attraction doesn’t work. This is why so many people give up. It is because they build a picture of their dream life and they focus on that life everyday and then they wait.


They wait for something to happen but nothing happens! Their dream life doesn’t come to them. They feel good and say positive things everyday but they don’t receive the rewards. It’s not because they are doing something wrong or they are not following the law of attraction. It is because they are not adding action to their dream.


Anything that you want in life needs to be chased with intention. It needs to be attracted into your life by doing things that will bring more like experiences to you. In our book, How to remove the Mental Hurdles and Limitations, we talk about this. Read the Goal is the Dream. It is all about taking action and understanding the way that successful people think and do.


Many of us have great ideas but never put them into action. It is not only because we tell ourselves that we cannot be successful, it is not because we are scared to try.

These things are factors that we address in our books. But it is because we are waiting for someone to give us permission to try. We are waiting for a sign or for someone to say, “You should do that. It’s a great idea.” But people rarely say that. Instead they give you a story of someone else that tried and failed. I’m telling you right now that you don’t need anyone’s permission. You don’t need to wait. You need to chase your definition of your dream right now.


Stop waiting for something to happen and start making things happen. This is my message. This is what we teach in our books. It’s about building your inner strength. Building your self belief. Building the fuel for your ambition.


Self Growth pageThis is how we came to write books. We believed we could and should, so we did. We took action without permission. We gave ourselves permission to chase our dream and make our thoughts things.

This is your mission and your assignment. Take action: The best time to start chasing your definition of living the dream life was 5 minutes ago!

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W.T. Hamilton is the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the President of the Your Invincible Power Company. We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.


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If your Dream Life comes Knocking

If your dream life comes knocking tomorrow will you be ready to live it? Most people will say “of course I’m ready! What kind of stupid question is that?” But if your dream life comes knocking tomorrow are you really ready to live it?

Maybe it never really occurred to you that you should give some thought to this? Maybe you just thought that you jump into your dream life and start living. This is something that Dream Lifemany people don’t consider.

  • They have a dream life in their mind but are they really prepared to live it?
  • What does the question mean?
  • What is it really asking?

I watch American football a lot. I love football. I miss it every time it finishes in February. It seems so long of a wait for it to start again. But I don’t just watch the game, I study it. I study how the coach’s make decisions, how the players react to injuries, how teams prepare for the games. I find it very interesting.

One of the things that I have noticed is that every player dreams about making it to the NFL. It is all they are focused on until they achieve it. Their whole life is based around reaching this goal. It is their dream life. Continue reading If your Dream Life comes Knocking

Becoming Rich. The Hardest Way To Do It

Becoming rich, there are many ways to do it. There are opportunities all around you.There are things you can do to increase your opportunities and things you can do to make the possibility more tangible. But like everything, there are easy and hard ways to do it.

Becoming Rich, the third hardest way to do it.Becoming Rich

Playing the lottery.

  • It is a quick and awesome way to become rich.
  • It is a life changing experience that very few have had.
  • It is something that you have no control over.

You really just get lucky but a majority of people believe this is the only way they could ever become rich.

You must realize that this is the hardest way to become rich. Not many people ever win the jack pot. Most people that win the jack pot do not know what to do with the money once they get it. And most people don’t have the ability to keep it and grow it so that it will always be there. Continue reading Becoming Rich. The Hardest Way To Do It