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Relationship, Why do People Find Themselves in the Same Old Same Old?

Why do people often repeat the same relationship that they were so uncomfortable in previously?

This is a question many of us ask. We see those that get out of what we call “a bad relationship” to find themselves into the same relationship behind a different face. The face of that person is different but the personality is very similar to the last one. Some people repeat abusive relationships in procession and believe it is mere bad luck. Or worse than that, they believe they are not deserving of anything else. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Each person on this earth is deserving of joy whatever way it comes.


The reason this happens is because when that person ended that unwanted relationship they had not changed the vibration of what they wanted in a new relationship. They were still concentrating on all the facts of why they wanted it to end. They mull over all the wrongs that the person did to them. They think about all the reasons why they wanted it to end and realized that they just don’t want to ever repeat that relationship again.

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So what happened?

They focus on what they don’t want. They reiterate constantly all those unwanted aspects of that person. They feel hurt of how destructive it was. They repeat thoughts of how hurtful they felt. These thoughts parade through their mind in continuation like an army of ants building their new kingdom. The problem with this is all those thoughts go out to the universe and the law of attraction ticks them off of the list.

This could possibly be you we are talking about. If so, please realize that the law of attraction is taking this inventory down believing it to be the list of what you are requiring in your next relationship. In other words, it gives to you what you think about constantly.

So, while you are thinking of what you don’t want you have signed the agreement to what you have coming towards you, and that is a repeated relationship of the last one. You have attracted this with your thoughts and the words that you have spoken to your friends, relatives in fact those people who buy into it. In other words, those that listen to your old story and agree with it.

How Do You Change This and Find the Great Relationship that You So Desire?

You let the previous relationship go. You focus on the relationship that you want. You look for all of those characteristics that you want in this new partner such as: attitude, quality img059 "Relationship, Why do People Find Themselves in the Same Old Same Old?"of personality, attributes, appearance, demeanor, viewpoint, behavior towards you. Make lists of him/her. Think of all the ways this partner will honor who you are. Think of how you are deserving of this person, because I assure you, you are.

Forget about the past, no matter how injurious it may have been. Let it go. Once you stop thinking about what has past, and stop talking about it you have let it go. And then the more focused you are on this new relationship which you are seeking the more your vibration will match what you want. This is the way you bring a new, harmonious, healthy relationship into your life. It will find its way to you. It must. It is a universal law.

Make that list!

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company.13 "Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the Your Invincible Power Company. 2-1 "Attachment vs. Detachment with Universal Laws" Your Friend Pamela We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and the use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation."

We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and the use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.

Your Friend, Pamela

Parenting – A Distinct Way

Parenting is often difficult. People may say, “I really wished that my child would listen. He’s forever getting himself in trouble; at school, at home…” They then go into details of how hard parenting is.

They point out the many ways their child does, what they believe, is awful things. Regardless, there is an easy answer to this if you believe in yourself and your parenting. Instead of thinking negative of all the ways this child can get into unwanted things and behaviors think of all the good things you would like to see in this child.Parenting-A Distinct Way

You may ask – What Difference Would This Make?
  • It can make all the difference in the world. Because when we give positive energy to anything–it encircles that positive energy around that person and back to us.
  • When you are only giving out negative energy that person is kept in that negative energy field and we along with it. Our parenting is affected.
  • When someone is close to you, in this case your daughter or son, it is even more powerful to give positive thoughts to a situation.
  • Your parenting effects your child enormously.

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When Skepticism fails

I was a skeptic, I only believed what I believed and everything else was just a fantasy. I based everything on what I had already lived and seen.

Skepticism was my shield from anything that was outside my norm. Skepticism was my safety net from anything that was strange, anything that I didn’t understand or didn’t want to understand. I held it tightly, I kept it close to me, I never let it get too far out of sight.

I experienced things that were seen as being very lucky and I chalked it up to luck every time. My whole life was a series of lucky circumstances and at the time I didn’t know aboutSay goodbye to the Drama ebook cover facebook 3anything other than luck so I just considered myself lucky. Skepticism helped me to think in these terms. So I walked this path for many years. Sometimes I would move to the other side of the room if someone started talking about things that I thought were way out there. If I started to find it interesting skepticism was there to remind me that I don’t think like that.

But then one day skepticism failed me.

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