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When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?

Part Two: If I feel inadequate how do I find my own power?

I have been studying these Universal laws for many years now and have watched, not only what has been showing up in my life but in others also. What I have come to understand is that we tend to look for negatives more easily than the positives in life. We often feel inadequate and we try to cover this idea with many complaints. This is a psychological activity which we’ve been conditioned to. This shows up in how we respond to those situations which make us feel valueless and inadequate.

I realized how much I complained.

I found fault in outside circumstances and gave blame to those circumstances or people for what was happening to me, which, at the time I thought was unfair. I didn’t understand that every unwanted event, person and circumstance that entered into my life was being attracted by me and no one else, by the very thing I complained about. We all do this because it has been a prior condition to give emphasis to our inadequate view of other people. Which in turn is a comparison to our profound feelings of our own inadequate self. Simply put, we have been trained to grumble our way through life. We do this constantly without thought. We criticize, censure and disapprove of situations, events and people who show up in our lives that aggravate it.

Like everyone else I didn’t understand clearly what these inadequate thoughts was doing to me.

The more I complained the more I stressed the unrevealed inadequate feelings in me. The danger in this is more experiences and circumstances would be attracted to show me my inadequate side. Simply put, it would prove to me that I was what I had been led to believe I was, an inadequate person.

The truth revealed: I am amazing, brilliant and powerful. I obviously didn’t think of myself this way. Most of us don’t. We seem to draw on our shortcomings easily and wonder why they keep showing up in our lives.

What was revealed to me is so interesting. Those people that complained endlessly about the things they didn’t want—those endless unwanted things was showing up in their lives relentlessly.

I watched those who live and enjoy life and it would seem nothing really went wrong for them. In other words, they got what they wanted and expected. I came to the awareness "When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"that these Universal laws were very powerful and that we do choose the life we want even if it is by default.

Our power is from within

But what I really came to understand was we have to get to that centered place in our lives of love for ourselves first. Our power is actually within. It’s about the way we treat ourselves. Some questions to ponder are:

  • Do you respect yourself?
  • Do you show love to yourself?
  • Do you see your own brilliance?
  • Do you see yourself as a deserving person?
  • Do you see yourself as much more than adequate?
  • Do you see yourself living a joyful life?

If these questions seem to be out of the range of what you think of yourself then you are not in your own powerful center. This means that you are not allowing the genuine you, the person you were born to be, and the life you were meant to live into your experience.

“Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in greater ways.” Iyanla Vanzant 
  • When you live from a false premise of who you are you cannot attract the experiences that you were born to attract.
  • You cannot give love and receive it if you don’t love yourself enough.
  • You cannot be prosperous if you are thinking thoughts of poverty.
  • You cannot gain health if you are thinking of illness.

These all go against Universal laws. This is why you have to change the way you think. This is the way you become powerfully centered.

My life changed completely since I understand this Universal law. I live in joy most days but I still see things manifesting to complain about. The difference is I stop myself. I actually pull myself away from the thought of complaining.  I pivot to a better thought. I center myself to a better place.

In Part Three, you will find out how to become truly centered, and manifest a life you want.

Our book, Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy, also provides answers to these unanswered questionslaw of attraction, success, mindset, personal development "When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"





Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

"When You Feel Inadequate How Do You Find Your Own Self-Worth?"

This is About Your Life, Your Invincible Power

Your Life, Your Invincible Power

Our book Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy is about connecting with the powerful part of you. It’s about claiming what is rightfully yours. It is the potential of being in control of your life and then getting there. When I understood all the possibilities and I started to use them amazing things shown up in my life. I was able to return to complete health after suffering for many years with rheumatoid arthritis. I stepped out of a well-paying job and never regretted it. I moved on to better more joyous experiences.

So many wonderful things happened to me once I changed my view about my life.

All of these amazing changes of joy happened and I was bursting to tell the world. I decided to write Your Invincible Power and yet another surprising thing happened. My son W.T told me he had been writing some soul searching articles for his four children who he intended to pass them on to. It was a chronicle of many experiences in his journey through life hoping to help them skip some hurdles they might reach along the way. When W.T offered these ebook, author, book, new release "This is Your Life, Your Invincible Power" intimate passages of his life to add to this book I thought it was very generous of him.

However, what I read blew me away.

What he offered would be life changing to those who could see the opportunities and possibilities within these pages.

After I had told W. T of my intentions for this book he could also see how his journey would not only help his children but many people around the world. Since we wrote Your Invincible Power we have received some astonishing stories about how our book helped people on their journey.

Your Invincible Power explains how the energy fields work in our lives each moment. How each choice we make changes that energy and takes us to either a positive way of living or  a negative way. It shows you how your thoughts are very potent and how each decision affects the pathway of your life. Learning to substitute negative thoughts for positive thoughts really does affect the way your life will turn out from moment to moment. I have written this through the experiences that changed my life and the teachers I have learned from. W.T offers his ideas with light humor attached to many true life experiences.

We are mother and son who see things very differently.

Even so, this gives you an even easier way to get to the place where you want to be. Simply put, you have two authors and two choices. One may be easier to relate to than the other. Some people learn by taking some ideas from both authors.

We hope that you will utilize these ideas for your own benefit.

We have revitalized this book since it was first written in 2014. We have given many theoretical as well as practical applications. Within each chapter there are lessons. Some chapters have exercises at the end, while other chapters are the exercise. It has been designed to move you to the life that you want to live, not one that you live by default.

Join us on this exciting journey of joy by living in your own Invincible Power.

"This is Your Life, Your Invincible Power "Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela


Author Bio: W.T. Hamilton is the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and W.T. Hamilton, Consultant, business consultant "This is Your Life, Your Invincible Power " the President of the Your Invincible Power Company. We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.



A Novel with an Alternate Purpose, Love, Worthiness and Value

A Novel with Love, Worthiness and Value

I took a major risk when I decided to write the novel Love, Life and Beyond 

This came about because I was told by a writing coach my idea for this novel couldn’t be done. His reason being I would be folding non-fiction into a fictional work and these two can’t be molded together. But, then I was advised from a person in publishing, when you are told it can’t be done, do it. And so I took the chance.

I will tell you a little about myself so you can relate to this idea, I put into motion, through this novel. I’ve been studying universal laws for many years and have written five non- fictional books with my son W.T. Hamilton."A Novel with an Alternate Purpose"

But I am also a fictional writer and felt it was essential to offer worthy solutions to negative situations in this novel. Solutions that work. I know they work because these beliefs turned my life around in a positive and joyous way and I need to pass this on to my readers.

So it was important to write a story that women could relate to through a number of situations

I realize that drug addiction had a major impact on many of us. In fact, for some it transforms their lives so dramatically that there seems no way out. Racism is also an issue that I feel passionately about because I lovingly live in an interracial marriage and have done for many years.

So the story had to have an impact serving valuable information, and solutions. Simply put, I didn’t want to just skirt around these issues in this novel.


While pondering this idea I had a light bulb moment. I know that when negative situations take place in our lives, they seem to get stuck in our minds. You know what I’m talking about, something happens, it’s on your mind and you can’t get rid of it. We all go through this at some point in our lives. In other words, it’s hard to find the link of what is happening and why when we are smack dab in the middle of a negative situation.

In my studies I came to understand that we actually gain more valuable knowledge from watching other people’s lives. I’m sure you’ve all experiences this first-hand. You’ve probably seen your friends and relatives make negative choices that you wouldn’t make if you were in their place, right? I find it becomes far easier to witness the negative choices they make than the ones we ourselves are making.

This is where the idea came to me of using spiritual mentors to offer a way out of the problems that plague us

The families involved in this novel Love, Life and Beyond face difficult circumstances of racism, hate and addiction. These Spiritual mentors are watching these families from the wings, so to speak. They see the confusion these families face and give the reader advice and solutions to these problems. "A Novel with an Alternate Purpose"

The mentor’s advice is written in exclusive pages in this novel and stand apart from the story

To put it another way, if you would rather read the story by itself without the mentor’s valuable advice, you certainly can. The story of these families can stand on its own.

This novel Love, Life and Beyond is unique in its guidance and can be used for any unwanted situation you may find in life. But it’s also about Love and Worthiness. And so if you enjoy the mentor’s advice you can read those parts often after the book is finished. This way you can change your own life around in the most positive way by taking advantage of the info written in these select pages of this novel.

To put it simply, I have been daring and gone against what most novels offer and have brought to you a chance that can and will change your life.

Thank you for joining me on this wonderful journey. And with all of my heart I hope you enjoy the story and the valuable information it offers to you the reader.

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

"A Novel with an Alternate Purpose, Love, Worthiness and Value"Pamela wrote, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela




Giveaways. Why They Should Be a Big Part of Your Book Marketing Plan

Giveaways and book marketing go hand in hand for a reason. They work.

Drama giveaways I know you wannaBut finding the right mix is a tricky endeavor. It is one that I have been experimenting with and have had some large difficulties and some big success.

When we ran giveaways for our first book, Your Invincible Power: Open the door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy, on Goodreads, we gave out 15 copies and were looking for reviews in return. But we didn’t get many reviews. It cost a lot of money to ship 15 books and not get much feedback so we didn’t run anymore giveaways for that book. Continue reading Giveaways. Why They Should Be a Big Part of Your Book Marketing Plan

Building the Picture of Your Life

Picture your life as you want it to be. Make the picture strong in belief and see what happens.

I am an author on Goodreads. www.goodreads.com.  I share the books I love to read which are Abraham-Hicks, (of course, lol!) Louise Hay, Wayne Dyer, Bruce H. Lipton, Sanaya Roman, Eckhart Tolle, Gary Zukav, Deepak Chopra and Rhonda Byrnes to name just a few. What I’ve found for myself is that these amazing books need to be read many times to really understand the essence of the message they bring to us.

I love re-reading books of these authors because each time I do I always have a light bulb moment where I see these great truths in a brighter light. I’m sure you know what I mean those times when it suddenly clicks and you say, “Ha haaa! I get it now.” For me its like placing pieces of a jigsaw puzzle together and with each part you see the picture a little clearer.

This is how it works for us all. Life is forever sending us another piece of the puzzle but we have to be aware if we eventually want to see the big picture. The other option is we just collect the pieces and stack them up on the table and never see the full picture of the way we really want our life to be! Continue reading Building the Picture of Your Life

Marketing. The 3 Realities of Marketing

As authors we all love to create. We love to write our stories. We work on building the perfect version of our ideas and visions.

We picture the story unfolding and the experience of the reader as they turn each page discovering the next revelation. We write and rewrite, read and develop, and sometimes we scrap the whole thing and start again.

Invincible Successful people adjusted marketing

No matter what the genre is that we are writing, no matter how long the process takes, there is one thing we all have to do once it is complete. Marketing! But how much time during this process do you give thought to marketing? Do you have a marketing plan as you are writing your book?


I know when we wrote our first book, Your Invincible Power: Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy, we gave zero thought to marketing.

I remember when the book was ready to go to print Brandon the marketing specialist at Balboa Press said, “What is your marketing plan? How will people know about your book?” That is when I discovered the 3 realities of marketing. Continue reading Marketing. The 3 Realities of Marketing

Video Post

Check out our new video.

It was directed and edited by my daughter Bree.

She is a great addition to our team.

Bree is 12 years old and is very creative. She has been making video blogs for her channel on YouTube as well as making video’s for her friends.

We had a lot of fun making this video and learned a thing or two about the process.

Stay tune for more video’s in the up-coming weeks and months.

Thank you for watching and for your continued support.

Your friends,

Pamela & W.T.