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True Freedom from Racism and Hate




Freedom is more than just a word it’s a way of life that we were born to find. My book Love, Life and Beyond shows the way to real freedom.

I have written quite a few articles about my book, Love, Life and Beyond and its benefits. The book outlines some major issues that many of us face and the freedom of taking control over these issues. However, I believe its most profound message is the way to gain freedom from racism and hate. This message became even more acute this morning when my husband, who is "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"black, (I’m not going to try and be politically correct because this term is what of he has always been comfortable with and taught me to use) started to describe the horrors of what is going on in the United States, the white supremacy (as they call it) and the marches. My husband was telling me with passion of what he sees as fearful. He went on to say that all what Martin Luther King had brought to us is seeping down the drain.

I listened, kind of. My husband knows that I don’t follow the news. I am careful not to buy into these negative beliefs because I do not follow these external views and laws. I follow Universal Laws which teach that there is nothing to fear.

When we get together and protest out of fear we are pushing against our freedom.

We are pushing against the results of what we need to see. The only way a body of people who march can produce what is desired is if they march in peace with love for their fellow man.

Mother Teresa said it best, “I will never attend an anti-war rally. If you have a peace rally, invite me.” She knew that pushing against what you don’t want can only produce what you don’t want. Without love for your fellow man these marches hold no power. This is a Universal law.

Universal Laws show that fear is something we buy into.

We watch these hate rallies and we become fearful of the future. Regardless, we are powerful human beings. We don’t have to fear. Once we really understand that taking control really means taking control over our own response to these situations our lives change, we find our true freedom. You don’t have to respond with hate because hate "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"cannot bond with love they are two different frequencies. Hate is weakness and Love is Power. It is impossible to unite the two. Hate never gets you freedom, it can only hold you in bondage.

Simply put, see the powerful being that you are. My book Love, Life and Beyond shows you how Universal laws are in place to give us freedom. It shows you through two families one black and one white racist, the way out of the fear of racism and hate. It shows you another way of handling unwanted situations like these that are playing out on the news and social media today.



Find your freedom. Find your way out of fear. Learn to take control of your life. Read Love, Life and Beyond it was written for you.

Also read Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy written by me and my son W.T. Hamilton. This is a non-fictional book that goes hand in "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"hand with Love Life and Beyond. What you don’t find in one you will find in another. They both represent your freedom, no matter where you are or who you are.

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote the novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

Your Friend, Pamela "True Freedom from Racism and Hate"

 

 

Conflict! How do you Cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?




Conflict seems to play a major role in most people’s life experiences. The question is how should we react when the drama and conflict shows up to avoid being involved within it?

First, we have to understand what makes us react. What are our thoughts telling us at the immediate moment the conflict arrived on our doorstep? We have to be aware of what conflict initiates in our mind when it presents itself. The ego plays a major role in our reaction to things. Ego thoughts are those of resentment and grievances. It tells us we’re the victim and constantly reminds us of all the reasons why this conflict manifested. The "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"ego places blame and the more injured emotionally you feel the more the ego mind can maneuver you to more of what you don’t want, and that is profound drama. The ego will often hurl you to a place you would rather not go. At times losing the people you love because the ego loves to take advantage of the helpless you.

Where does the helpless me come from?

There is a false sense of the helpless me. It stems from fear. It is the thinking mind, the ego part of thoughts that is persuasive. It is the thinking part that actually convinces the helpless me to react out of a false awareness. Conflicts present themselves constantly and all they are is a situation or a person that says or does something opposite to what we agree with. It then becomes an unconscious psychic struggle. In many cases resulting in a hurtful clash. For some people a clash that may never resolve itself, or worse changing the relationship to “my enemy”.



We are not helpless. We are much more powerful than we believe. When we are in our power we have no need to allow the ego to take control. We are in control of our lives, and any situations that conflict presents.

When we are in our power the victim part of us dissolves into the backdrop of our lives. The helpless me cannot be in full force if we understand our ego mind and the way it works.

How do me and W.T handle this?

All who have read our articles and books and have been on this website before hopefully now know that me and W.T are mother and son. We work together. However, we have many different ideas. I am more spiritually centered and W.T is the logical part of this arrangement.

We often have disagreements to what our vision is. We are frequently far apart when it "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"comes to which way we should move our ideas forward. Our different age group plays a major role in how we handle things. Nevertheless, we have learned to agree to disagree. We have given each other permission to be who they want to be. Sometimes my hair stands on end and my eyes roll when I look at some of W.T’s youtube videos. And I know for sure W.T doesn’t share my endless chats about Esther Hicks, Abraham.

So what!! What is the big deal if we don’t agree? Why should we break up this wonderful partnership because we see things differently?

You see, there will always be disagreements and conflict in life. It is our reaction to it that makes it painful or not. The next time it presents itself in your life listen to what your inner voice is telling you. Is it the ego at play leading you on the wrong path? Listen. Always listen to the voice that is speaking. Is your self-talk really you, or is it the helpless you, the ego that has full control?

Take your control back. Listen to what the thinking mind is telling you and then change it harmoniously to where you would rather be in life. Simply put, reach for happiness first to avoid the pain of conflict. In other words, don’t take life quite so serious.

 

Your Friend, Pamela

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela also wrote a novel, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that "Conflict! How do you cope with Discord when You Are Confronted with it?"we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

 

 

How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?

How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?



We did a radio interview with “Happie” Micha Edwards on his talk show ‘O Happie Days’ in Toronto, Canada. The topic was freedom.

Freedom is our connection to the positive energy field. When we are in the negative energy field we are not in our power. When we are not in our power we feel restricted and limited. We blame everything and anyone that we are involved with for the negative situations that enter our lives. The problem with this is the more we blame other people or situations, the more we hold ourselves in bondage. To be connected to this positive energy field we must understand how we draw into our lives all what we have up until this point.

Unfortunately, for most of us, we have been conditioned to beliefs that do not benefit us.

These beliefs are so contradictory to Universal laws they completely turn us in the opposite direction to where we need to be. To be connected to the positive energy that will bring you what you desire you have to think and feel from within yourself. This journey is all about being connected within. It’s about YOU! The bone of contention with this is we don’t think this way. Our beliefs are that if we have a negative issue in our lives we have to look "How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?"outside to find the solution. We look for others to make it okay. We may want them to change the way they see things so that we can feel good. The result of this is that we are restricting our self. We no longer are connected to positive energy because this infinite energy can only come from within ourselves. There isn’t any person or object or even a situation that can fill the gap of unworthiness you feel.

What you need to understand is that it is easy to stay connected to this powerful energy field when you understand your own worth.

Instead of being drawn into a negative situation you must remind yourself of your own power. We are all extremely powerful in our own right. This means there isn’t anyone living "How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?"today that isn’t worthy. When I reach a negative situation in my life I have to remind myself of how powerful I am. I do this often! I tell myself, “You are much more powerful than this.” No matter what the situation looks like from the outside and even if it looks impossible I have learnt that nothing is impossible when you understand your power.

I was talking to a prisoner who was remorseful for what he had done. He had gotten involved deeply in things that he would not have if he had listened to his own heart. At that time, he was connected to the field of blame and anger at what he thought was a life that was unfair to him. When we spoke it seemed to him that it was impossible to change his future. He had blundered through life listening to others and allowed himself to be drawn into the negative field. We talked about turning his life around. Becoming harmonious with everyone and everything. But above all becoming harmonious with himself. Using his power to become connected to the life that he so desired. Once he really understood his own power and how he had given in to untruths about himself he could see a different future. He connected again to the positive energy field.



And then what had seemed to be impossible turned around.

A lawyer took an interest in his case and worked and got him free. All positive opportunities were drawn to him. He got a wonderful job. He met new friends that valued him for who he is. His life turned around in the most dramatic way. He is now counseling other men that need to reconnect with their own power.

We all have power. We are all deserving. This is the only way we can be free of bondage. Free of other people’s views. Free of others anger. Free of people pleasing. Free of fear.

Remind yourself often, “I am a powerful person. I’m much more powerful than this problem.” Believe in your own self-worth and watch your life change before your eyes.

You’ll be astonished to see your life change around. You will then see how easily it is to be connected to this powerful, positive energy field.

Your Friend, Pamela"How do We Stay Connected with Positive Energy?"

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction, the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company  which assists in going beyond suffering and finding the ultimate joy we all have a right to.

Pamela wrote, Love, Life and Beyond to further promote the worthiness that we all hold title to. We just have to find our way to take ownership to what is rightfully ours.

 

 

 

 

Calling All Angels and Abraham-Hicks Lovers

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Since I came to an understanding of the Law of Attraction and the teachings of so many teachers and mentors I absolutely became fascinated with Esther and Jerry Hicks, Abraham. This is why I place Abraham quotes on our website every day. Even so, I had already started to write the book Love, Life and Beyond many years before this. I had had "Calling All Angels and Abraham-Hicks Lovers"the idea of non-physical mentors before I came across Abraham. I found the more I delved into this phenomenon the more it made total sense to me.

I had put Love, Life and Beyond on hold while life seem to take over.  I then lost my youngest sister, Janice at 48-years-old and a year later my mom, and then two years later my best friend and sister Yvonne.  I was completely devastated. Within a span of three years they were gone. It was a year after Yvonne’s death that I came across Abraham-Hicks teachings, so timely, when I was searching for answers to why they had suddenly gone from my life.



I soon came to the understanding that they are still with me

I came to understand that life is fleeting in a physical sense, regardless, our conscious mind lives on forever. I had stopped writing the book for quite a few years but realized that this book needed to be  "Calling All Angels and Abraham-Hicks Lovers"written. I not only poured myself through the stories of these families in this book but I felt an obligation to pass this idea that I had of non-physical mentors forward. I had to explain how life reacts to our way of thinking. I feel close to Abraham and the way the realignment of energies is interpreted in such a sensible way. All we have to do is use our good feeling thoughts, so simple!

Here is the youtube book trailer for Love, Life and Beyond

When I understood the knowledge based ideas of, “A belief is only a thought you keep thinking,” I started to use it in my life instead of following what everyone else was saying and doing and began to take control of my life. In doing so I realized how this Law of Attraction and Abraham stuff worked by watching other people’s lives. We can all see what our friends, family members and associates are doing wrong first before we see the mistakes we make ourselves in life.

I used the mentors to illustrate this concept more clearly

This is the way to take control over our lives. As I have said in other articles. If you are not a big fan of non-physical mentors or angels, then you can certainly read the story without taking in the messages that these mentors deliver. For those of you who, like me,  follow Abraham, however, I believe that you will find some strength in the mentor’s guidance.

Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy

Your Invincible Power is another book that me and my son have written together. I believe that if you enjoy Love, Life and Beyond you will find that Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy will take you a step further on your journey. We have "Calling All Angels and Abraham-Hicks Lovers"renewed, re-energized and rejuvenated Your Invincible Power with more tools and techniques. We now invite you to renew, re-energize and rejuvenate your life so that you too can take control over your own life and bring to you all those desires that will improve all aspects of your life, just like Abraham advises us to do.

 

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company.

"Calling All Angels and Abraham-Hicks Lovers"

We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and use of the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.

Your Friend, Pamela

Problems and Solutions, How to Solve any Problem

We all have problems there is no argument in that statement but did you know solutions to those problems can come to you so much more easily than you may have known up until this point?

This is what usually happens with most people, when they have a problem they mull over the problem with great focus. They try to come up with the solution by going over and over the problem. The problem then becomes your main focus and the solution literally gets pushed to the side. In other words, that problem in your life is given more energy than the solution.





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The more we focus on anything the more energy you are giving to it and the law of attraction manifests what you are thinking about. The struggle with it then becomes enormous if we don’t check our thoughts about it at the early stages of this problem.

How do We Change this when the Problem is so Real and there Doesn’t seem to be a Solution?

We take our minds from the discord it brings, and we become solution oriented. Even if there doesn’t seem to be an answer or a solution anywhere in site. When you do this you will give energy to a solution showing up. Believe me there is always answers and solutions to every problem, always, it is a universal law. Nothing is too big for the universe.

When you give focus to a solution you are asking for help from this very powerful Universe then the solution can show up. In other words, you let go and allow that solution to come. Your mind is not hampered with the problem but the solution. By letting go of the problem you are allowing the solution to appear and it will.

Every problem has a thread of some positivity and every positive situation has a thread of some negativity. The reason for this is that we have to have contrast in all we do so that we can have an assortment of choices, ideas and desires. We are not all the same, we don’t want the same things in life, and so we are given many different situations to help us sort out what we do want and desire our life to be. Problems present themselves to show us we are on a wrong path. Also to help us change our thoughts around what we are doing at this present time. By continuing to focus on the problem you continue to go down that same pathway and that same journey goes on.

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When you are solution orientated then you can gradually change the situation and your journey will also change.

Use positive thoughts to allow a solution to appear. Here are some ways you can use self-talk to change the energy from the problem to the solution:



  • Even though this problem is so overwhelming I understand that a solution will appear very soon.
  • I don’t have to live in fear of this situation becoming worse and overtaking my life because there is always a way out. Always.
  • There have been many problems in my life and solutions have shown up, when I look back and think about them now.
  • I’m understanding that problems present themselves in lessons to help me understand the path I am on. So maybe this isn’t so bad and I just have to change directions from where I am now.
  • I understand that the solution is on its way and I will not allow the problem to get bigger by focusing on it.
  • I know in my heart, even though this problem seems mighty big, that if I don’t worry about the problem a solution will show up. I believe this.
  • I am grateful of all problems that present themselves to me. Because I know some positive energy is there and will eventually overtake this problem I am facing.

Use this self-talk to move you in another direction, to turn your journey from the negative to the positive field. This will overtake the worry behind the problem and enable you to quickly move towards that solution and then the solution can show up more easily.

 

“Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don’t want.”

Abraham-Hicks

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I love the quote above. You see the law of attraction matches what you are thinking about. When you are worried this mighty law magnifies your worries by giving you more. So each thought laced with worry attracts another and another. Eventually the problem becomes much worse it cannot do any other. So the answer is change those thoughts and you will find the solution. And the bonus is you will eventually see that less problems show up in your life.

 

I have written a novel concerning two major problems many people face in life, racism and drug abuse. I have drawn on the conflict of two families one black and one white. Love, Life and Beyond is about problems and solutions and ways to face them. Coming soon to a retailer near you.

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company.

"Problems and Solutions, How to Solve any Problem"

 

We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and the use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.

Your Friend, Pamela

 

 

Affirmations, Why You Should Create Them and How They Can Help You

 

W.T and I have talked quite a bit about using affirmations in these articles, in the books we have written and in our youtube video’s. The reason we do this is because affirmations are powerful. Way more powerful than you would ever realize. They are easy to use and do and can make major changes in your life if you not only use them every day but believe in what you are saying.

Affirmations are short, positive statements set in the present tense that reflect the state of mind or condition you wish to obtain. When said with confidence, they can help you achieve goals and overcome obstacles. An affirmation works to reprogram your mind, helping you believe that you have already achieved your goal.





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  • Affirmations can be very powerful because the subconscious mind does not differentiate between reality and imagination.holiday-2044339_1920 "Affirmations, Why You Should Create Them and How They Can Help You"
  • Affirmations help you replace those self-defeating thoughts that typically run through your mind on a daily basis. 

Your Inner Critic

  •  Many times our thoughts are our own worst enemy.
  • Affirmations work on the principle that you are whatever you continually think about, so if you are continually repeating in your mind that you aren’t good enough or strong enough or your appearance isn’t quite enough, your mind eventually believes whatever you tell it or program into it.

Subconscious Thoughts

  • Affirmations help you control your subconscious thoughts.
  • They are short, but powerful statements.
  • When you say them, think them or repeat them in your mind, the thoughts then become your new reality.
  • Affirmations, even though they are conscious thoughts, help you reshape your unconscious mind.

Typical Affirmations

  • Affirmations can be used to help improve any area of life.
  • They can help you succeed in business, in your personal life and even help you achieve better health.
  • Affirmations can even be used to improve your wealth consciousness.

Affirmations for Wealth

Affirmations for wealth and prosperity can be as simple as something like:

  • I am a success in everything I do.
  • I am a money magnet.
  • Money comes to me easily.
  • Everything I touch turns to gold.
  • I am prosperity.
  • I have all the money I need to live a prosperous life.

Affirmations for Good Health





 Affirmations can be used for health purposes also. Typical affirmations for health include:

  • I am getting better and better each and every day.
  • I am healthy and whole.
  • Good health is my divine right.
  • I enjoy perfect health.
  • My body is healing.

Affirmations for Confidence

 Many of us grow up not feeling so confident, and those unconscious thoughts can hold us back in life. Using affirmations for confidence and self-assurance can go a long way to helping you feel better about yourself. Typical affirmations for confidence might include:

  • Confidence comes easily for me.
  • I am confident and self-assured.
  • I deserve the best because I am the best.
  • I am beautiful and charming.
  • I have much to offer the world.
  • I am remarkable.

Affirmations to Help Manifest Change

  • Affirmations help you move toward the life you want to achieve.
  • They can help you overcome limiting beliefs and old ways of thinking.
  • Your subconscious mind holds onto everything you have ever seen or experienced, so those hurtful statements said to you as a child can hold you back in life.
  • When you use affirming statements, you can redirect your energy and redirect the course of your life.

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life

  •  Affirmations help you change your thoughts at the deepest level of your mind, your subconscious mind.
  • If you constantly worry that you will never have enough money, then those are the thoughts you put out into the universe.
  • The law of attraction states that like attracts like, so in order to change your life, you must begin by changing your thoughts.
  • If you are focused on what you don’t want, then that is what you eventually keep drawing to you.
  • If you are focused on what you do want, then you can begin moving toward a better life.

Bottom Line

Affirmations are a way of focusing your energy on something helpful and positive. By repeating them in your mind or aloud several times a day, you begin to believe that good things are possible. Affirmations help change your energy and your focus.

It is important to make them believable though because if you were to repeat in your mind that you were a millionaire and your mind didn’t really believe it, then you need to amend your statement so it is more believable. It would be more effective to say something like, “I invite great wealth into my life” because this is a statement that is more believable. You can work up to being a millionaire; with affirmations, anything is possible.

There are more affirmations at the end of our book Your Invincible Power, Open the Door to Unlimited Wealth, Health and Joy.”

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company.13 "Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the Your Invincible Power Company. 2-1 "Attachment vs. Detachment with Universal Laws" Your Friend Pamela We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and the use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation."

We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and the use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.

Your Friend, Pamela

Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought

What has been difficult for most people, I have found, is that they don’t get the concept of how powerful thought is. We have learned that if we are born within a nucleus that is struggling we have no other choice than to go along with that struggle. We have never learned the importance and the power of thought. We believe that what we call fate is all we have in life and there are no choices only to make the most out of what we have.





“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve regardless of how many times you may have failed in the past or how lofty your aims and hopes may be.”

Napoleon Hill

 

What we haven’t understood is that we can change our destination at any point in time. This may be hard for some to believe especially if you’re in a place where your ultimate future seems to be doused in negativity and great limitation. But you are never stuck where you are. Never! You may be in prison, you may be in a country where there is constant war, you may be in a family where violence reigns. There are so many countless ways that negativity may dominate our lives and the message of hopelessness is the meditation-1087851_960_720 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"
emotion that is constantly with us. Even with all of this negativity surrounding one’s life it can be changed. There are people that have walked from war zones in Africa and escaped death to later become a doctor in America. There are countless stories of these sort of destination changes that a person can make.

To change your destination is to believe that you have a much better place in life to be than where you are right now. Why should you be born without choice and so many other people, it may seem to you, are born with so much choice? I am going to tell you without a doubt that you alone can change your destination by starting to believe right from where you are at this very moment in time that you are worthy of a much better and joyous life.





“You must first have the knowledge of your power; second, the courage to dare; third, the faith to do.”

Charles F. Haanel

 

How do you do this? You use your powerful thoughts to focus on the life that you so deserve. Make it your mission to focus on the details of the life that you would love to be living right now. If it’s money you need then see yourself with the money. It doesn’t matter if it’s lots of money just make it believable to you. Why I say believable to you is that if it isn’t deep in your subconscious you will place doubt if it’s not believable to you. If it is then img064 "Changing Your Destination, Thought by Thought"go for it no matter how enormous it may sound to anyone else. You see it’s your belief in what you think you deserve that counts. Once you get yourself to believe that you deserve a wonderful life with all of your desires met then the ideas, people and places start to change and the Universe opens up doors for you to go through, that were once walls. Everything starts to change. The most positive thing that you can do for yourself is to expect it. Expectation is a powerful place to be to manifest all of your ideas.

Start today and think your way to the wonderful life that you deserve. Remember the key to all of your desires is expectation along with the thought that you deserve it. And let me tell you, no matter who you are you are deserving and the Universe will give it all to you if you believe. This is your true destination believe it to be so.

Pamela Hamilton Is an expert in the Law of Attraction and the co-author of Your Invincible Power series of books and the Vice President of the  Your Invincible Power Company.

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Your Friend Pamela

We have created a series of books to assist in the understanding and the use the Law of Attraction in everyday situation.

Why I Wrote Love, Life and Beyond?




Why I wrote Love, Life and Beyond?

 

Love, Life and Beyond presents four major issues which change the predominant dynamics of two families. These issues are racism, drug abuse, death and the opposite side of the coin, spiritualism.

The idea of this story popped into my head around fifteen years ago.

At that time, I was completely into Gary Zukav’s The Seat of The Soul” I was first introduced to him and his ideas by Oprah who I’ve always been a fan of since she first came onto the scene of TV talk shows. This book became my bible at that time. I’ve always been one to share great img111 "Why I Wrote Love, Life and Beyond"knowledge of how we can enhance our lives. Therefore, I gave “The Seat of The Soul” to some friends and family. I was dismayed when they said it was too deep for them. Although I understood that by watching Gary explain his ideas on the Oprah show made it much easier to comprehend than those people just reading the book for the first time. However, to me I felt it was a great loss if they couldn’t bring this knowledge, in some small way, into their lives as I did. And so, this was the emergence of Love, Life and Beyond and the way it has blossomed.

I needed a story that could really illustrate how you the reader could witness many of lives problems from another point of view.

Hence the mentor’s advice.  I’ll tell you more about these fun non-physical mentors in a moment but first,  they say write what you know about. And so, the first issue in Love, Life and Beyond presents death and the fear behind its meaning to us.

I lost my two sisters and mom in a relatively short space of time and I was devastated. I became infatuated with knowing where they were. I read some great stories of near death experiences, commonly known as NDE, which kept pointing out that death was exactly the opposite to what we believe it is and certainly nothing to be afraid of. Anita Moorjani’s ‘Dying to be Me’,  is a great illustration of what I am talking about. Therefore, I started Love, Life and Beyond with the story of a woman, Anne, who dies in the first chapter to depict my idea of life after death. This is where these lovable mentors are first introduced, they often emerge throughout the story with their wisdom and actually talk to you, the reader, to present different opinions and sentiments of these situations.

The second issue presented in Love, Life and Beyond is racism, with all what’s been going on in the news media I think this is landing at the right time.

I am white and my husband is black to put it straight talking. These are the terms my husband and I have always used, so why change it to be “politically correct” now? We have three sons’ and six beautiful grandchildren. I know about racism first hand and we have dealt with many situations. I left my home in Leicester, England to live in Canada many years ago when I was twenty-four. I only have my husband’s side of the family here in Canada, who I love very much, in fact as much as my own side. We all get along very well and so I can honestly say that I have lived on both sides of this unclear issue, without any difficulty. I wanted to portray my husband’s side of the family in this story, they are mostly well educated, professional people and so this became the reflection of the lifestyle this “black family” in my novel, would represent. Anne, in the story is racist, dies and reincarnates as a black girl, Nova, whose mission in life is to change her forma family’s viewpoints on race issues.



I worked for family services and drug abuse affected many of the families we dealt with bringing with it many struggles and challenges.

So this was to be the third issue.  There are many of us that either struggle with someone in our family that are using or a friend’s family or a friend. Due to this I realized it was another issue I wanted the mentors to address.

Drug abuse is a far reaching disease which can devastate a person and their family for many years. Love, Life and Beyond expresses the heartache of this disease and the way it can rob the personality of the user as well as their families leaving in its tracks only ruination and devastation.

Gary talks about non-physical guides and teachers that actually work behind the scenes of our lives guiding us by bringing people, places and circumstances to move us forward on our journey.

In Love, Life and Beyond I used spiritual mentors to bring some fun situations in the story working inconspicuously on our behalf in the background of our lives, so to speak.

I was told not to bring the mentors into this story. Nevertheless, the story is quite able to stand alone for those who don’t agree with the mentor’s advice and opinions, or maybe think they slow the story down. If this is the case, the part the mentor’s play can be easily skipped because their advice does stand out by itself for no other reason than to move through the story without their particular viewpoint, if it is not what the reader wants at the time. I believe myself that they present the fun and logical side to these powerful issues, but that is of course my opinion. The mentor’s entire purpose, in this drama, is to bestow love and trust which they fling in the face of hate. They explain, as the story progresses, why we sometimes face such hard core hurdles in life, and how we can change these unfortunate situations.

This is a thought provoking book which presents powerful insights in a world of hate that can be changed with the power of love.

Love your friend, Pamela pamela